• Silic0n_Alph4@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Easy: it was once on the island of Lesbos, but it’s now in its rightful place in the British Museum and there is shall remain!

  • bcgm3@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Uno Reverse Card:

    • Tell her to point to the Vas Deferens
    • “We’re not so different, you and I”
    • High-five
    • True gender-equality finally accomplished
  • Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca
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    2 months ago

    To be fair, the majority of women, who have said bits, don’t know what they are either, most seem to think it is all vagina.

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    https://www.forbes.com/sites/debgordon/2023/10/21/90-of-americans-feel-unprepared-by-sex-education-new-survey-shows/

    I mean, the state of sex education in the US is abysmal, misinformation and just no information is so rampant that it’s rather silly to expect the average young adult to know the detailed anatomic names.

    In my life so far, I’ve dated plently of women who didn’t know anatomical names, or with a few, even basic signs of what a vaginal health problem looks like.

    With one, I had to deduce that her described urinary problems were possibly actually bacterial vaginosis when I uh, also noticed the smell.

    She got extremely pissed off, thinking I was insulting her, thinking I was saying she had an STD/STI… a week later she’s back from the doctor and yep, I was right, now she’s on antibiotics.

    How many women can, off the top of their head, identify thr vas deferens, cowper’s gland, or know that testicular torsion is even a thing?

    • tux7350@lemmy.world
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      Yeah its awful. Ive had the BV situation happen with two different partners. And God forbid, you bring up anything thats considered outside the heterosexual spectrum in an educational setting. Could you imagine if men were taught about the possibilities of the prostate in a judgement free environment?

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        2 months ago

        I was this close to also mentioning that yeah lol, turns out any guy can have pleasure and potentially an orgasm from proper prostate stimulation…

        And you don’t even have to be attracted to other dudes to be able to do that, and enjoy it!

        Pegging and toys exist!

        But again, nope, not allowed by heteronormativity.

        To go with another personal anecdote… different girl I was dating at one time, who considered herself pansexual… well, I broached the idea of using an anal toy… and she, again I remind you, a self described pansexual… just started calling me gay, constantly made buttsex jokes and quips all the time, started trying to get me to hook up with dudes.

        WTF?!

        I respect her gender and sexual identity/pregerences, she doesn’t respect mine at all, while she’s literally wearing rainbow flag pins and going to every pride event in town and constantly making IG posts about how everyone should be more inclusive and accepting?

        Sorry to rant but yeah, the hypocrisy is strong and multifaceted in this realm.

  • Shardikprime@lemmy.world
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    I know it says bf (which I will assume means boyfriend)

    But I’d you read the studies:

    45% of men aged 18-25 had never approached a woman in person for a date

    29% of all men said they never approached a woman in person for a date before

    27% said it had been more than one year since they approached a woman for a date

    Source(s):

    https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/

    https://x.com/DrThomasAG/status/1674391128215367682

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/darwin-does-dating/202305/the-potential-negative-impact-of-unwanted-singlehood

    Pair that with the quality of education and it is of no surprise that a boyfriend doesn’t know what they never knew existed in the first place

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      So weird to hear this. Like the whole area just isn’t that big, surely eventually most people stumble into it even if they aren’t making an effort…

      • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Yeah after hearing the “can’t find the clitoris” and “it doesn’t exist” jokes for so long, I was kind of shocked by how easy it was when I finally got down there…

        I do believe that there are men who have this issue, but it seems kind of fucked up that the woman would just complain about it rather than take 3 seconds to show them. It’s not like it’s well hidden or anything.

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        I very rarely come across a labia minora either at work or at home, but maybe I’m not working in the right place or something.

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    Oh look, another anti-male post on Lemmy. This shit needs to stop. If it was a “women are so dumb” meme, it’d be reported and removed for being anti-female/misogyny/“I’m a woman and don’t like it, so remove it” complaints, and the poster would be banned.

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      My advice is to just let yourself die on the inside. Because they only way to not see this content over and over is to go into alt right circles and we can all agree it’s better to be dead then republican

      • catty@lemmy.worldBanned
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        Or to actually speak out against such abuse and to not let it be normalised.

        Oh no, being against it upsets some women who are used to unconditionally hating on men in their little sycophant abusive circles without having any comebacks.

        Oh well, anyway…

    • trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world
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      You’re just assuming this is anti-male, without any context it might as well be a complaint about lack of sex education.

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    I see all these stupid boyfriend/stupid husband stuff, and I can’t help but think maybe my ex wife was just jealous of her friends that had stupid men in their lives.

    And maybe I’m just overqualified for relationships. I mean, shit, that was the advice my brother gave me: “I get along with people because they’re much smarter than me.” One of the first red flags I remembery ex wife telling me was “you know you don’t have to be so smarty all the time.”

    Ok, no, I can’t even lie to myself that well, can you imagine? Being overqualified for dating lol