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  • peoplebeproblems@midwest.socialtomemes@lemmy.worldwhere
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    1 day ago

    Yeah, IDK if I have the energy to get abs.

    I’ve got definition on my arms, back and legs, but the abs require effort I can’t give yet. Plus an additional 15 lbs of fat and probably need all the excess skin removed.

    As it stands the lifting and cardio are a lot. Changing it to HIIT 200+ minute a week is just not going to happen lol


  • We’re gonna find out.

    6 months ago, I’d say yes. No matches at all. But I’ve worked out a lot in those 6 months, and I got better clothes, more comfortable haircuts, new glasses.

    Imma have my brother get some photos.

    I was recently told by several women that I really shouldn’t have a hard time as long as I don’t take selfies. I make good money, I’m 6’0", I’m white, I got blue eyes, and I have muscle. Im attractive at first glance.

    They said I don’t need a perfect anything as long as it looks like I put effort in to appearing good. It’s something about effort and confidence being more attractive than being Henry Cavill. But I also have to learn to stay to my values and not just fall for the first hot woman I get a match with.



  • Look there are two kinds of people with breaking bad.

    Those who loved it, and those who haven’t watched much or any of it.

    My ex got me into it, and she’s kind of… Well, shes not brilliant. So I didn’t take her recommendations too seriously most of the time (I really don’t enjoy Teen Mom or 90 day fiance or 600lb life). But this? This show hooked me. It takes quite a few liberties with the sciency bits and lawyer bits, but it’s fun even with a bit of knowledge cause it starts with something being “technically correct.” It’s well written more than anything.






  • See that’s what I don’t get.

    Let’s presume I have the knowledge on how to find sex workers to begin with, then I presume I can afford one. Right there, we’re looking at someone who is more expensive than a therapist without the training to actually help.

    In my head, a sex worker would be an entirely different kind of “therapy” from a therapist. Mainly because I have learned that I didnt exactly have what one would consider a good sex life in my previous marriage, and it has warped my confidence. Paying to have sex seems like the way to fullfil that innate need while still working on myself with a therapist.

    Still, there’s a lot of other variables than would probably end up being loaded on the sex worker that I’m ignoring that probably isn’t worth it in their mind.