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  • Leviathan@lemmy.world
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    9 小时前

    I have pretty severe ADHD and I fucking hate food delivery service apps. What is this post even trying to say?

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      Most modern US towns were basically founded about or after the time cars were invented. Or at least have experienced the vast amount of it’s growth since the car was invented. So stores and shops, courthouses, post offices, etc have just been built all over the place.

    • __dev@lemmy.world
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      Many(most?) older towns did have a town square, many still do in various forms. Though it’s not the town square they’re about; it’s the medium density mixed-use housing.

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      Not really, we tend to have a “main street” where all the popular businesses are lined up, but otherwise a lot of towns are pretty car-centric.

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    What the heck is this convoluted, but incoherent post? OP must have ADHD jumping between these topics and thinking they’re related

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    11 小时前

    Is there an association between adhd and food delivery?

    My moomer trait is I just don’t get food delivery.

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      9 小时前

      I feel like that’s a millennial trait too, simply because we’re all too broke to afford the markup.

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    12 小时前

    Most of the delivery services here in the UK even in places with big roads use bicycles, mopeds, or at most a small hatchback car. They can easily fit through that city.

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        11 小时前

        Oh goodness, this is reminding me of the SUV/truck hellscape most manufacturers are trying to push nowadays. Even my inner car guy hates those with a burning passion, as it killed so many cool cars.

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            All equipped with child-killer front ends that are totally crash-incompatible with every normal car.

            End the light-truck exemption.

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              5 小时前

              Things are this are why I am so glad for European crash safety regulations. Even an adult getting hit by an F150 must feel like getting hit by a brick wall.

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    15 小时前

    Carbrains cant imagine how a system that yeets you across the city at 70kmph underground could exist.

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    You’re lazy and can’t accept that you have no self control. Stop blaming mental illness. Yes people have it. No it isnt the reason you are worthless sack of shit. That’s all you.

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      17 小时前

      It feels good that people are finally starting to feel comfortable saying the harsh truths again. We’ve been living in some bs cancel culture the past few years and it is now coming to an end.

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      The title is garbage, but ADHD folk can have a lot of problems preparing food, even ordering food.

      Having an option if all else fails is a lifesaver (getting regular-ish nutrition & not starving for a couple of days at a time - not a short term issue, but the psychological effects can compound over time … this is also the segue/mechanic why so many adhd ppl develop persistent depression).

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        I appreciate where you’re coming from, but understand this is a very personal issue for me. I’ve been dealing with it for the majority of my life.

        I’m not going to challenge the specific merits of food delivery. But everyone deals with their disorder in their own way. For example, I solve this issue by simply living next to a grocery store in a walkable area. It’s something I’ve worked towards over time.

        What infuriates me is someone trying to code something as “ADHD-adjacent” - and in this case, pass it off as though exploitative gig service delivery apps are some kind of accessibility measure. We are particularly susceptible to the weapons of the information age, which has engineered easy dopamine hits within the reach of our fingers at all times. They are NOT there to make our lives better. They are there to exploit, profit, and manipulate.

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          Oh, yeah, for sure, the garbage (0-sense) title is screaming monetisation of all the things for a few clicks.

          I too resolved a lot of my food issues by having stores in the same building I live (and nice restaurants in the 1 to 5 minute walk where I can skip the delivery & go get it myself).

          With delivery I just meant

          Having an option if all else fails

          An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

      • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        Speaking as an adhd person:

        I cannot afford to use these services.

        I cannot deal with their bullshit, and, as someone with marginalized aspects of my identity, cant deal with their spyware.

        I can, however, walk about a block to a 24 hour grocery store or pizza place thats open late. If i fucked up.

        • Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee
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          With delivery I just meant

          Having an option if all else fails

          An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

          I hate third-party delivery services, those are just exploiting workers & act monopolistic when it comes to fees they change to the restaurants.

          I go get my own food, but it still happens that I can’t leave my apparent sometimes so I assumed this does help some people.

          I resolved a lot of my food issues by having stores in the same building I live (and nice restaurants in the 1 to 5 minute walk where I can skip the delivery & go get it myself).

          But yeah, not all days, sometimes food is complicated.

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        I feel seen

        Other delivery options help or like pre-ordering pickup on apps have saved my life, but there was a span where I was living on delivery because I couldn’t shop…still kind of can’t figure out what my ‘easy’ foods can be that are also not gonna make my heart hurt.

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        Nearly every single restaurant had food delivery services prior to Uber/Doordash’s existence. Many still have.

        I mean, there’s a reason pizza delivery scooters have been a thing since the 1980’s.

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          Not only that - if they still do they usually offer lower prices. Even lower if you pick it up yourself.

          Those big 3rd-party delivery services sux, they exploit workers (pay, “tips”) and restaurants (fees).

          Big tech ‘disruptions’ are just a facade to get monopoly without providing anything new.

  • Tiger@sh.itjust.works
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    21 小时前

    That’s Plaza Mayor in Madrid right? Awesome place, often a tourist trap though with overpriced mediocre Spanish food, but awesome.

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      With ADHD, you can suddenly be depleted of energy, not have the motivation to cook, or simply forget to eat. When you get hungry you can go ," Ah whatever I’ll order delivery"

      NOW. It may be more prominent in ADHD folk, as myself, but it is not just an ADHD folk issue. This person is just making ADHD their entire personality, and pointing fingers at things they don’t like.

      Also, I’m almost positive that Madrid( is this Madrid?)has food delivery services.

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        food delivery services are better in car-light places, because cars (as we all know) fundamentally fucking suck shit.

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      Literally nothing.

      Shitty people will associate ANY impulsive decision with ADHD because they get all their mental health information from short-form content.

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    My euro brain cannot comprehend that Americans are discussing about it like it’s something weird or exotic let alone anything special.

    Love you all and would love to have a huge ass truck and a shotgun and live the Pißwasser advertisement lifestyle, but it’s really just a square. Sometimes they do markets there from like 6am-9am on a Saturday though which is nice if you hate sleeping. Also there’s probably a McDonald’s. Now you know all our town square secrets