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Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 25 days ago

I can fix her

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I can fix her

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Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 25 days ago
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  • Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de
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    25 days ago

    No, she definitely ghosted me :(

    • ivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.world
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      24 days ago

      They always come back around when you truly don’t give a fuck, so try to get there ASAP. It’s a win-win, in this context.

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        You severely underestimate how big of a loser I am. I appreciate that!

  • red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    There are enough for everyone: https://cagedladies.com/

    A lot of normal women who got into trouble, but also some crazy ones.

    • Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works
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      Many years ago I responded to one of these inmate pen-pal things. I did it because Susan Smith, the woman who pushed her car into a lake with her small kids in it, was one of the people on the pen-pal list. I wrote a letter, but got a boiler plate response from the prison about her no longer being on the pen-pal project due to an over whelming response.

      I remember the profile she had though, discussing how she loved rainbows, and mini mouse

    • qyron@sopuli.xyz
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      Considering the US penal system, I’d risk many are in for ridiculous things.

      • red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        Definitely. But a while ago, when I first saw this site in a post, I found one young woman who had in her bio that she was very submissive and looking for a daddy. When I looked her up, I found out that she was doing 8 years or so for sexually abusing a 12 year old girl. That’s what I mean when I say that there are some crazy-ass bitches on that site.

        • qyron@sopuli.xyz
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          Yikes! That’s a stopper.

    • Agent641@lemmy.world
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      24 days ago

      Fucking sliding doors moment right here, reading this comment is the proximate cause of my eventual murder and dismemberment by a big tiddy jailbird gf.

      • LousyCornMuffins@lemmy.world
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        Dude I fucking hate that movie. I’m in the (personal, not global. I know we’re all in the global bad universe) bad universe and I do not like thinking about the good one

  • Cyrus Draegur@lemmy.zip
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    25 days ago

    “I can fix her”?

    She can break me.

    • turtlesareneat@discuss.online
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      25 days ago

      Twice this year, it’s a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.

      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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        Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he’ll get better, I’ve had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain’t worth waiting for and being broken over and over in the meantime

    • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Both are fun. Then we can do a crazy ex girlfriend off.

      (I will win)

      • ivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.world
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        24 days ago

        Challenge accepted.

        • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          24 days ago

          Not you dear.

          • ivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.world
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            24 days ago

            Woo! I win!

            P.S. Sorry about your trauma.

            • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              24 days ago

              Sorry, no, compassion is a trigger for me.

              • Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                24 days ago

                In that case,

                • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                  24 days ago

                  San diego is a trigger for me.

  • Godric@lemmy.world
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    25 days ago

    As someone currently being ghosted, improvement yeaaaaaaaaahhhhhh

  • Unpigged@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    25 days ago

    How about not putting your dick in crazy?

    • Sc00ter@lemmy.zip
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      Counter point: have you ever put your dick in crazy? Its awesome.

      • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world
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        They do fuck pretty good. It’s like holding a tiger by the tail. In one instance the tiger is sure to like it. Right?

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        24 days ago

        You can get keen and competent without them being crazy

        • rabber@lemmy.ca
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          24 days ago

          Yeah but not nearly as hot though

      • teamevil@lemmy.world
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        25 days ago

        I mean you’re right if you vibe with similar crazy but that withdrawal and collateral damage…ouch.

        -even if you don’t vibe it’s going to be amazing

    • lemonskate@lemmy.world
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      25 days ago

      crazy people need dick too

      • MotoAsh@lemmy.world
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        25 days ago

        But do they deserve dick, is the question.

        • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          24 days ago

          Wow, bigot.

          • MotoAsh@lemmy.world
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            My comment was in no way about who deserves to procreate, but who gets to have the fun of the process.

            • Olhonestjim@lemmy.world
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              There’s also the question of who has been naughty and needs to be taught a lesson.

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            One of the medical clinic nurses at the state Psych hospital I worked at would give any patient a condom if they asked and not tell anyone. Like. It was known to administration and it was one of her official responsibilities to do so, but she would not reveal who she gave them to or keep any records. We would absolutely stop them if we caught them but you can’t always catch people before they make a wholeass new person.

            • zqps@sh.itjust.works
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              Now I’m imagining being conceived between two psych ward patients and I’m like… really trying not to sound judgemental, but that’s not great odds for the baby both in terms of a stable and nurturing environment growing up, and a genetic predisposition towards mental instability later in life.

              • jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.works
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                how can you know the child won’t grow up to enjoy the illness?

    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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      I don’t think you understand the demographics of a psych ward. When I went (technically a pediatric one) it was 50% people who self harm and got caught, 30% people who are depressed and it got too bad, 10% overdoses, and only 10% ‘crazy’ people

      a lot game from disadvantaged backgrounds and just didn’t have the best start with abusive parents and shit and take it out on themselves. They just need stability and care, care that a significant other could give.
      I guess I could be put into this category too.

      the ‘crazy’ people were chill, they just talked to themselves and saw stuff sometimes. They’re not like… mean.

      the ‘crazy’ people that you are probably thinking of aren’t the ones who go to the psych ward. They say that they’re normal and blame others for their issues. They’re the ones who don’t want to be associated with people with depression and bipolar syndrome so they don’t seek treatment for it and get WAY worse than if they went to therapy instead of drugs.

      It’s also worth noting that the ‘crazy’ people you’re thinking of aren’t past saving. They need help too. They probably started off with a bad background and weren’t taught how to take accountability and coping techniques. It’s just really, REALLY difficult to admit you need help and to go through the process of getting it.

      People do recover and should be given assistance, assistance that the American system doesn’t give.

      • LemmyPlay@lemmings.world
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        Thanks for the perspective

    • some_random_nick@lemmy.world
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      Look at you, trying to force “common sense” into people. How “admirable”.

    • ivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.world
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      24 days ago

      Have you tried it?

    • slst@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Stfu mentally ill people deserve affection as much as anyone.

      • vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works
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        As a mentally ill dude I would like to trade the disgusting affection for a 1991 Fiat Polski.

        • Sonor@lemmy.world
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          24 days ago

          what color?

          • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
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            Rusty red

            • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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              hell yeah

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    Don’t bother. She’s already perfect.

  • Saint_La_Croix_Crosse@midwest.social
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    23 days ago

    This is literally me with an ex-girlfriend.

  • e$tGyr#J2pqM8v@feddit.nl
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    Working as a nurse in acute psychiatric care, I can tell you the comparative normality of non-psychiatric-patients is easily overestimated. No need to stigmatize those in need of little help now and then. We all do.

    • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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      aww, you with in a cute psychiatric care

  • frida@lemmy.world
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    me when i was on duolicious

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    I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…

    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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      I didn’t :(

      • GoodTransKitty@lemmy.zip
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        I’m sorry -_-

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          Hi, sorry -_- , I’m dad.

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            It’s Apsalar now

    • Norah (pup/it/she)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Yeah, I just had my phone the whole time. It turns out that completely cutting people off from their support network doesn’t promote mental wellbeing.

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    Hey baby, can I interest you an a folie à deux? 😉

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      God that movie sucked ass.

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        I kind of want to watch it, but I’d have to watch the original Joker first.

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          Original is decent, but won’t live up to the hype. The second… just … don’t.

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        I know, and it ruined a perfectly good psychoanalytical term, too.

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    Lol, this literally happened to me once.

    Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.

    Dodged a real one there…

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      Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes

      I don’t deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.

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        wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.

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        From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can’t be very helpful in their situation…

  • SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world
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    She’s probably going to need a good lay after that one.

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      As if she didn’t get laid in the psych ward.

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        Orderlies don’t count. It’s like being on vacation.

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        There’s not generally a bounty of desirable dick in the psych ward, trust me

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          Some women do things together in their rooms between check-ins though.

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          In my experience the patient’s desire is not a factor.

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    Crazy?

    • HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world
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      I was crazy once.

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        They locked me in a room.

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          A rubber room!

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            A rubber room with rats!

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              Rats make me crazy!

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                Crazy?

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                  I was crazy once.

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    Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now i think but she’s super hot so whatever

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      She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up

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        Time to put a ring on it

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          If she’s 27 do u think it’s possible she outgrows this lol

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        thanks for the update

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      Convince her to go to DBT if she hasn’t yet, it makes a hell of a difference

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