• nepenthes@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      I turfed FB in 2015 as well (didn’t bother with the other stuff).

      But now I’m worried I deactivated it and didn’t delete… I cannot remember.

      If it’s just deactivated-- I wonder if it’s better to just leave it a greyed out graveyard, than to reactivate it just to delete. I feel reactivating would give it more information even, as I would be on a different device. It’s been dead a decade.

      What do people suggest?

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    I only use it for messenger. And only then because it still has chat bubbles. There are many better messengers. But they don’t have chat bubbles that draw over other apps.

    I haven’t posted on FB in years.

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    How to delete is not the problem. That’s the trivial part. In fact, you don’t even need to delete your account. Just stop using it and it’s practically the same effect.

    The problem is how to get your friends and acquintances out of there. Lots of things are there and only there. Like for instance, it’s my jujitsu club’s main place of information. If I quit FB, I will no longer know what’s happening there.

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      The only thing keeping my meta account alive is Marketplace. Unfortunately, it’s much busier than Craigslist in my area.

      Facebook has become a dirty flea market for me.

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        Marketplace needs to die, it’s got most of the downsides of craigslist except for making it super easy prospective purchasers to spam “still available?” Ad nauseum

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        Yeah the world moved from Craigslist to marketplace before I did. I found out the hard way when nothing was selling.

        One thing I like about marketplace is you can view someone’s profile to see if they are an actual human that lives near you.

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        Same. I live on an island and the only way to sell anything is on two fb groups. Craigslist is there but half the time you get people on the big island and have to take a ferry to sell. I’m thinking of starting a small website/app, not sure it will take off though.

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          If you cant get people on craigslist, the most well known fixed rock of online classifieds…I don’t know that your app will take off. OfferUp and the other one also tried to knock out marketplace and failed.

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            Offerup, letgo, mercari, etsy, there’s a million online 3PMs. (3rd party marketplaces). Refine the idea or scrap it. This guys right.

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      Also Facebook Groups for obscure things, Facebook Marketplace, and even a lot of local political organizations primarily use Instagram

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        i tried to avoid it and deny it forever but facebook marketplace has really destroyed craigslist. so lame

    • ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world
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      This is the problem I’ve run into. I wanted to stay as part of a social group I’m nominally in, but that group’s only presence is on Facebook. And the group admins don’t want to move somewhere else because a) it’s change, and b) there aren’t many other options as good at managing such groups.

      On a related topic, does anyone know of a good Federated alternative to Facebook. Or at least an alternative that’s less ad-riddled and more privacy-conscious)?

      I looked around online last night and all the articles out there suggested things like Reddit, LinkedIn, Instagram, and Twitter as Facebook alternatives, which are wrong on so many levels. I’m not that bothered about getting an alternative myself since I barely used FB anyway. But being my extended family’s tech support, I keep getting asked about what good alternatives are out there. I’m finding nothing, but I’m likely missing a good Federated option.

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    you don't

    at least it was. my family had posted photos and tagged me in them. At that point I hadn’t had a FB for almost a decade. this was years ago now, but I doubt they changed it.

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    Unfortunately, I’m keeping mine to make a pipeline from there to actual content on Mastodon or BlueSky. But I basically put a URL in my bio and push a photo once a week.

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      TL;DR Only if you misunderstand the intent of the word “delete”.

      In the sense of getting rid of the sites themselves, sure, that’ll never happen.

      And in the sense that once you’re known to them you’ll never be forgotten, at least not without a massive lawsuit that you’ve little chance of winning, yes.

      But you can ask Meta to delete your account(s) and everything visibly associated with you to the point that you no longer have a presence on any of their sites, and that’s what this article is about.

      One of the reasons Meta has been creating fake AI-based accounts is because so many people are doing this and they don’t like it and want to make it look like their sites are still active. Which is an excellent reason to delete your accounts, even if they weren’t also doing a bunch of other heinous things.

      And you can delete the apps from your phone. You should delete your accounts first though.

    • Jeremyward@lemmy.world
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      Nah, Facebook and Instagram are the worst. Facebook is some ad riddled, AI slop, filled late stage capitalism hellscape. Worth not using just for mental health.

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        I quit all social media except for Lemmy, and I have to say it’s been great. Especially getting off of Twitter.