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A cheap acoustic guitar from Amazon… That’s what happens when you’re unemployed, you waste that little money you have… I can’t even play it, I though it would be easy to at least pretend to play it but not, is a pretty dust collector now that I want to destroy.

Also I guess cyberpunk 2077.

  • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆@lemmy.world
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    The guitar (any instrument) is not like learning any other thing. It is a part of your life and something that you care enough to have or not. It is okay to suck at it and still enjoy it. There are a great many reasons to play that do not involve any social context. I tell people all the time, you do not hear of all the concerts people play using the masterful compositions of Albert Einstein, yet he played the violin.

    I never play a guitar with or for other people. It is my emotional refuge. I’ve sucked at it for many years, but I simply do not care to make it an academic like pursuit so far in my life. I enjoy zoning out to my thoughts while my fingers move without.

    I haven’t made any regretful purchases in a long time. Maybe some woodworking gear (planer/jointer) I’m unable to utilize well due to space constraints.

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      I’m the same way. I play music solely for fun, by myself. I love playing with others as well, but even in the times in my life when I was lucky enough to be able to do that I still would play music by myself. Common attitudes about music are really toxic imo. Music is at its best when it is free, live, amateur, and enjoyed alone or with close friends, not for an audience with outsized expectations based on the ubiquity of recorded professional music.

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      I care about playing the music that I like but without sounding like dog shit though. That’s the difference between you and I. For me is not okay to suck for so long.

      • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆@lemmy.world
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        Ask yourself why and address it. Maybe try lowering tension on the neck and finding strings that work at lower height and tension. I play with an acoustic that has nearly the same action dynamics as an electric.

        There are also some minor things that often do not get communicated. Hold the pick near the tip of your index finger and not near the middle or upper joint/segment. Keep the end of your thumb on your fretting hand behind the guitar neck; don’t palm the neck. Most pattern-like music that you use TABs to play are accuracy exercises someone heard and made a song out of. One of the first songs I learned was December by Collective Soul. It happened to be TAB’d in a magazine and I played it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6exsatE-DUk

        The first dozen or so songs you learn are harder, but choose them wisely, you will not forget them for your entire life. They will stick harder than anything else you learn.

        3 Doors Down’s Kryptonite is another song based on both an ultra simple strumming rhythm that may not feel natural but will expand your understanding of strumming, while the picked line is another simple practice/pattern training system.

        The Alice in Chains acoustic album’s Rooster is a simple chord and picking combo of two chords that are overly rewarded for their simplicity.

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          You’re being nice, but I’m sorry. I’ve seen similar videos anyway, and the lowering thing requires tools and certain knowledge that I’m just not capable, plus I’m broke. That’s why I put the guitar in a “things that I instantly regret buying” you know?

          Some people are just fucking stupid, dude. My mom can’t use a phone or a remote control, I cant learn guitar.

          • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆@lemmy.world
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            As you get older, your perspective will likely shift to where “can’t” as a concept changes. It is a matter of mental focus and persistence. There are lots of things I won’t do or am too lazy to do but could if I apply myself for long enough. This is really true of almost anyone. I largely learned to overcome my impatience by doing auto body work. There were countless barely passable jobs where I let my impatience override my reality before I could overcome myself. Most people could not see my mistakes because they do not know what to look for, but I knew.

            You’ll likely encounter some aspect of life that alters your perspective in this area. You already made the purchase. This is one commitment that will impact your view of yourself for the rest of your life. There is no hurry or time limit for learning. Ultimately, it is only 12 notes.

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            To say you can’t is a convenient way to explain it. It’s okay to say you don’t have enough motivation to learn it. Even once you can play an instrument you still need the motivation to keep playing, and if you don’t, then that’s all good. No one thing is for everyone.

            No need to say you’re stupid or incapable, you’re absolutely smart enough and capable, you just don’t have the motivation to overcome the learning curve, and that’s completely acceptable.

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                I mean, I’ve seen you on here enough to know that your brain trends towards negativity and that there’s a solid chance that if you put the time in you could get somewhere with it, even if it’s just average.

                I’m not saying everyone can just be Eddie Van Halen, I’m also not saying that you should just bash your head against the wall and learn if you don’t want to, but learning the basics of guitar is not intellectually difficult, it just requires dedication, and it’s cool if you like the sound of guitar, but don’t want to learn the technique, (which isn’t musical at all, it just ends up producing music).

                Life is hard enough as it is, try not to be hard on yourself.

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                  Cmon man, I’ve heard that before for like a decade now. Some people are just destined to fail. I accepted it. Is a hard fact.

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            Oh, dude. It takes years to get good at guitar, unless you’re one of those very rare, exceptionally gifted people. Although with the right practice routine you should start sounding pretty decent by the 6 month mark. Musicians have a minimum of 10,000 hours of practice before they ever step into a recording studio.

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      THANK YOU. Finally, not about the stupid guitar.

      The game is boring as shit, dull world, the NPC’s are lifeless and act weird, uninteresting story, I didn’t cared about the big guy dying (the game act like it’s a huge deal) the menu and controls are HORRIBLE. What’s the point of clothes if you can’t see your character? The buff and abilities are pointless when you can just shoot everything, I don’t see the point of sneaking. Worst car handling ever.

      Just compare it with a GTA, RDR, hell, compare it with assassin’s creed, it’s night and day.

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    I have played guitar for 30 years. I even played on stage and had a decent following at one point.

    Everyone sucks in the beginning. It’s not personal. It’s very rare that anyone picks up an instrument and is instantly good. The suck is part of the journey.

    You keep up with it because the pain is worth the outcome. It’s an outlet. Don’t do it for the results. Do it for the journey.

    The best teacher is a game called Rocksmith. It scales with your ability. Seriously worth checking out.

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    I ordered a pipe fitting and then realized that it had a different type of threaded connector than the one I needed.

    Not the end of the world, I suppose.

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    Not me but a friend asked me for some money to go buy an ounce. I gave him 300 thinking it was weed. He came back with two 8 balls. One of coke and the other one heroin. I to this day regret ever giving him money. And he still hasn’t paid me back.

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    To be honest, in this economy, anything past the essential needs feels extraneous. Which leads to some big frustrations and regrets. I know it’s the debbie downer answer, but it’s how it is nowadays.

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    I studied guitar for a long long time and I’d never buy an instrument that I haven’t seen first hand. Is it possible that the gap between the string and arm is too big? It’s hard enough when it’s proper height.

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    Anything from Amazon now.

    Last few things I bought -

    Annsmann rechargeable batteries. The best brand you can get, btw. Just don’t get them from Amashit because they’ll likely be fake

    A door handle set. The central spigot was about half a mil too big to fit through a standard latch hole

    A USB hub that plugs into my motherboard. Crashed the pc so bad I had to system restore

    This was all within two weeks. Cancelled my prime membership, and they sent me an email saying “But you’ve saved over 270€ with your prime membership over the last five years!”

    Bitch I paid you 290 for it in that time Fuck off

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    Whatever the current stand-in for the former Linksys Wrtg whatever router. I kept that (the old one) cheap piece of crap because I could pull it out of storage as an emergency test device if my real router ever borked out for well over a decade. It finally stopped being useful because I couldn’t flash the firmware (at least not as easily as in the past) and just go. Bought the new one and it felt like garbage in my hand. Cheap and light af and wouldn’t let me set it up for wired only (had to create a WiFi network to activate it). I boxed it back up and threw it at the front door. It was returned the next day.

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        Alternative firmware is what I should have said. It’s been a couple of months and I only spent maybe an hour on it, but OpenWRT or whatever the hell else is what I tried (don’t recall all details). Browser certs and too little RAM is what got in the way, I think. I just don’t care enough to make that work when I can spend a few bucks to replace it after so many years of awesome service. Too bad the new ones are garbage.

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    I bought a shirt with a funny print. I wanted to wear it tomorrow to my last day of work before vacation. It gets delivered on saturday.

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      Tell your boss this: “Aahm… I’m gonna need you to go ahead and come in tomorrow. Oh, oh, and I almost forgot, aaah, I’m also gonna need you to go ahead and come in… on Sunday too, ok? You lost some people this week, and… you need to sort of, like, catch up”

      Source: Lumbergh

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    I hold some grudges against a microsoft surface… I bought it at a time where microsoft was looking calm, but soon after things started going south. On top of that the table is slow af, and I installed linux, but it hasn’t been so great that way either.

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      I read that Linux doesn’t do very well on the Surface Pro. My Surface is the only Windows machine that I own now. But it’s such a great piece of hardware that I keep using it. I refuse to update to 11 though, so I’ll probably give Linux a try on it when support for 10 dies.

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          Can you still use the pen, and are there any drawing apps for it? I’ve been using Leonardo, and I dig that app for pencil drawing. I’ve used Adobe Fresco for painting, but I cancelled my subscription, so that’s not a big deal that it’s not available on Linux.

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            As for what features work, it depends on your model. Here is a breakdown showing all models and features. TL;DR the only thing that doesnt work for my model is the built in webcam as it is some proprietary chip or whatever. All other features work fine, typing cover pen and depending on the app the pen is recognized as having two different ends like for an eraser. I’m not much of an artist myself but I have messed around with Krita for doodling and Rnote for notes. I happen to be using Nobara as thats what ive got on my desktop and it has the linux surface changes built in. But you can poke around the surfacelinux subreddit (icky R site I know) to see what they use. OH, and last thing is that some linux distros just WOULD NOT install for me, i cant recall the details but it was a known issue at the bios level that kept me from installing Aurora. Keep that in mind if you go through with it and it refuses to boot and install lol. Feel free to ask more questions btw. :)

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      The surface studio looks like a hell of a form factor. But (ignoring that I can’t stomach Windows), I really can’t trust any hardware Microsoft makes.

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        It really is! It’s a great piece of hardware. It’s the only device in my house that I tolerate Windows on. I bought it for drawing, and it works outstanding for that, but it also doubles as my laptop, and my out of town computer.

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          I also kind of hate Windows pens. It feels so much worse than the Apple Pencil to me.

          Give me a 24/28 inch iPad or Apple Silicon Mac with Pencil support and I’d spend way more than I can afford on it.

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            I haven’t tried the Apple Pen before, so thankfully I don’t have that comparison. I looked into getting an iPad instead, but they run iOS, and the Surface Pro is a full -fledged computer, complete with desktop OS, not a mobile OS. So I felt that it would be better for day-to-day use outside of my drawing. So far I’ve been very pleased with it, other than my normal complaints about Windows. What’s odd is that a lot of the annoyances I had with Windows on my desktop aren’t present on this Surface. They don’t re-enable all the privacy shit I turned off every update, they don’t show me ads, and a lot of other things. Idk why that is, but I’m glad.

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    A bag for bycicles, gets you free Transport in parts of the EU for the bike, not used it once, its been months