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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • I might be wrong, but I was under the assumption that Lemmy doesn’t stop them from replying. There was a recent conversation complaining because blocking people didn’t silence them.

    If you want to test it, feel free to reply and block me, I’ll see if I can keep the conversation going. Unblock later tonight to see if it worked.

    I guess Reddit does it that way, but I try not to think about that place anymore.


  • I don’t know about this “winning” theory.

    Generally, people feel like they’ve won when they get the last word in. If you block someone, you don’t see their replies and assuming they do reply to your last comment, they would get the last word.

    Personally, I block people when I realize there’s no point in continuing the conversation. I’m not trying to win an argument, I’m just over it and don’t want to interact with their toxicity.



  • Probably not “used” as in victimized. I think they were giving you a chance.

    Sounds like she liked you, and wanted to see if being in a relationship would cause her to develop romantic feelings.

    It didn’t, so, there was no point in pretending.

    Sounds like you two weren’t really compatible, and you both learned a little from the experience. I say, no harm, no foul.





  • The used condom is an object, you could burn it and it wouldn’t harm the guy in any way.

    I did not claim that the condom was the victim in any way. I also have no problem with burning used condoms. Kinda weird, but I’m not here to kink shame.

    And, having sex without a condom COULD harm the guy. He could pick up an STD in addition to being responsible for an unintended pregnancy.

    When someone says yes to protected sex, that means that they have said NO to unprotected sex, until they explicitly say otherwise. Sex without consent is rape.

    Calling any bad behavior related to sex “rape” is doing a disservice to people who were actually raped.

    And I would argue that you are doing THESE people who WERE actually raped a larger disservice by saying they weren’t raped enough to deserve the right to say that they were raped.

    Do we really need people gatekeeping rape?