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Cake day: November 8th, 2024

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  • stop thinking about yourself and think about the people you hurt. what do they want? would they feel better if you apologized, or worse? have you ever asked them? have you ever owned the damage you did? it’s like you’re asking us to make you feel better after you hurt someone else. make it about them, instead.

    if there’s a specific incident you can remember, consider approaching the person it affected and taking responsibility for it. pay for the thing you broke. apologize for the thing you said. be accountable for it, however they need you to be



  • media literacy is dead. god save the next generation of policymakers. jesus christ.

    @lexam@lemmy.world I believe Lemmy.world web (which you can access on your phone via Firefox) is styled so that upvotes look like hearts. This can vary depending on custom styles in different communities, eg. if you viewed the same post from my instance the upvotes are styled as carrots. If you’re not logged in, you won’t have the ability to upvote, but you will still see the number of upvotes each comment has—> this may be why you don’t have the option to “heart” a comment, try logging in first. Also, it’s possible the post was locked by a moderator so no one can upvote.