WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]

Are you talking about Kirk?

IIRC, Sony is the publisher and wanted to require logging in through their service, but it wasn’t ready at launch so it launched without that requirement and they tried to add it later.

Middle is just using the n64 wire on yourself instead of proper rope.

They already believe that’s happening and that its intentional and they need to go to war to prevent it.

Yup. Its not a deal breaker, but I try to find at least some options that have a rating and consider if its worth the other tradeoffs.

I think we could use some more opening statements though.

Do you mean you haven’t checked before this?

At my childhood home, I wouldn’t drink the tap inside without a filter either. And my parents don’t trust it even if it has been through a filter. Only reason I’d drink directly from the outside faucet is if I’m really in need of water and there’s no other viable option.

I think most people when they hear the word ‘asexual’ think the person just means that they have a very low sex drive- not that they are totally and completely unable to feel sexual attraction.

The reason I didn’t think I was ace is because my libido was annoyingly high. That said, asexuality is a spectrum. I’m honestly not sure where I am on that spectrum. But like, understanding what experiencing sexual attraction is like is difficult (not from a lack of trying - I’ve read dozens of people’s description with the purpose of trying to understand better).

it would be no less confusing if you said you never got hungry or never felt pain.

You should try intermittent fasting. When I’ve been doing it (just 1-meal a day) for more than a month, I start to forget what hunger feels like. Eventually becoming low energy is what tips me off that I should eat and I try not to go without eating in a day (any only more two days if for medical reasons)

Not feeling pain also doesn’t seem that foreign to me. Not because I don’t experience pain, but people seem surprised by the things I don’t think are painful, such as charlie horses (that might just be masochism). I already behave in way such as assuming my body won’t send pain signals even if I do something like break or sprain my wrist.

In general, I’d say its a lot easier to understand not feeling something (assuming you don’t always feel that thing) because you probably have at least some experience of not experiencing that thing.

I think Jesus was a myth, but if we are running the thought experiment that Jesus was real and he was pious because he was asexual- that seems a bit like cheating to me. The reason that people have such a hard time following all of Christianities silly sexual rules is because most people do have sexual desires. It’s like being impressed that someone who never feels hunger hasn’t eaten in 30 days or someone who never feels pain walking over hot coals. Technically they did the thing- but it’s not the same.

Fair. I know I’ve been guilty of confused by people’s behaviors due to a lack of understanding of how differently we experienced things.

You’ve never tried it or you just aren’t sure if you liked it?

Pretty certain I did as a child, but not if even then I considered it a neutral or a negative? Certainly wasn’t something I had a positive opinion of.

You never know, some things don’t sound like they would be good but then you try them anyway and it turns out to be fantastic. There are very few things I will not at least try once before deciding its not for me. Hell sometimes I’ll try a food I’ve already tried once before and didn’t like it, and occasionally I am pleasantly surprised

Yeah. I meant “I assume the same for the pie itself” as a sort of self-criticism because I get its not a reasonable assumption.

Anyways, my main point was more about the original topic. I’m not even sure how I would possibly rate them? What am I even trying to rate them on? People’s attraction to both left me wondering if people were just lying about it (and perhaps sexual attraction more broadly) because it was beyond me comprehension that would could actually care for either.

Guess dragons can also be werewolves?

I don’t think so? But I assume the same for the pie itself. And who knows how it would be together (most people, but not me) - some things are bad by themselves but good with certain things. And if the option is for a smaller piece with whipped cream, that might be less bad than a full sized piece without cream.

I don’t even try to eat pumpkin pie. I have no clue how to even compare whipped cream vs no whipped cream.

Looks like it to me based what I’ve seen of people poking fun at the toxic trans 4chan stuff.

No, because all aces are born fully gods.

Although when someone continuously fucks it up every single time, I find it hard not to interpret it as malicious behavior.

I don’t think the alternative is necessarily malice. My mom I think at least partly misgenders trans people because she just doesn’t get why its a big deal because she doesn’t have a problem being gendered as a guy 🪺 I think sometimes its a bit out of jealousy though, which I think counts as malice.

It sucks so many people have to deal with that kind of thing. I don’t think it is just a matter of forgetting. Its a matter of not caring and they should be allowed that excuse (except for the occasional slip-up).

I’m sorry if this post is not appropriate for this community. I chose this community because transfem is what I’m most familiar with and what I feel most aligned with because I like to present more feminine.

The community was renamed from “mtf” to “transfem” shortly after the migration from reddit specifically to be more explicitly inclusive of people who don’t necessarily view themselves as female or women, but in any way identify with femininity in any way that doesn’t align with their agab. I don’t think there’s any need to worry about whether you belong.

You’re still young and learning about yourself. I thought I was technically cishet until my late 20’s, so I was wrong for far longer. Being wrong is just a step for learning. If you realize you aren’t trans, is it a big deal? Why? Because you just don’t want to be wrong? Because you want to be a gender other than your AGAB? If the latter, I think that’s a pretty good hint you might be trans of some sort.

The barrier is less than most email nowadays

I have one that has like a knit structure(?), so it provides basically no heating.