WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]

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Cake day: December 31st, 2023

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  • Someday i had the thougth that the existence of trans people implies that there must be a emotion/feeling or way of knowing your own gender.

    I’ve seen multiple of trans people say things along the lines of “I decided I was a girl a few years after starting HRT and everyone was already calling me one.” Guess they could just be agender specifically.

    Anyways, I also find the whole topic of gender confusing, so can’t help you too much with figuring out the answer to that (I’ve been in these communities for a the last few years (after my egg cracked) and frequently interacted with the community for a couple years before that.

    Ultimately, I don’t think it really matters what a gender is though to determine what steps you can take to be happier regardless of your gender (or lack thereof). I certainly heard that idea before, but it still took me a while to really internalize it.











  • I’ve tried a few some different brands for that kind of thing. Found one that fits me well and comfortably and have stuck with them (enfemme, but I suspect it’s partly just normal variation in humans that leads to some people loving the other brands I tried). I didn’t experience any discomfort normally and I tucked basically all-day (not night usually) everyday for about a year before starting HRT (I probably have a high threshold for pain tho). Never tried tape.

    The ones that happen to fit just barely loose enough to have a nut pop out are the worse. I’ve gotten better with technique over time, but if they don’t fit right, it’s not gonna work well ime.