I’m 20 and probably wouldn’t date anyone over 39 or under 18-19. If i date someone who is 18, they also can’t be barely 18, they have to have been 18 for a while so birthday is important if they’re 18.

my current girlfriend is 19 x3

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    if someone over 35 wants to date you it’s a pedophile

    No…words have definitions for a reason. Pedophiles go after prepubescent children, not 20 year olds who are most certainly postpubes ent. It may not be ‘normal’ or viewed highly by people, but it’s not pedophilia.

    Also it’s super weird to think 35 and 105 is cool to you, but 35 and 34 if no go territory.

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      a 20 yo is almost a teen, a 35 yo is someone that have lived and it’s not so easy to influence. A 35 with a 105 is weird but we all know both are aware of whats happening, if a 40 is after a 20 it’s because he likes them young and I don’t doubt it would go even lower.

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        Agree. Someone well into adulthood with a preference for dating people right at the border of adolescence is a massive red flag. It may be legal but flying as close to that line as society will allow suggests a more predatory nature.

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      This pedo muddying water shit is getting tiring.

      Just because you don’t like something, it doesn’t make it a crime and it surely as fuck does it make it a pedo issue.

      We already got enough pedo yearning for the wood chipper., j dont get why people waste their energy on Leonardo DiCaprio lol