Ill start, I never used a check. The only way I can get a house is waiting for my parents to die.

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    I have used a check. I’m more likely to be able to get a mortgage and buy a house than to be accepted for a rental again, though I’ll likely die before paying it off. I still keep a fair amount of actual cash at home “just in case”.

    Will be interested to hear your guesses.

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    I have had to use a check to pay rent and will never vote in a presidential election because elections are rigged and there’s no fucking point. The American dream is dead.

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    I know the manager of my bank branch by name.

    I have a silver certificate.

    I used to have to go deposit my weekly pay in cash at the bank, as a teen.

    I bought a graphic hoodie off the Internet by mailing a paper cheque to a PO Box.

    Bonus round:
    My music collection included CDs, but also cassette tapes and vinyl.

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      Are your vinyls ones you purchased brand new, before other forms of media were available?

      If no, same question for the tapes

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        I was too young to purchase cassettes (though they were a vibrant part of my childhood I spent every penny of allowance on penny candy and saving up for game carriages) but I am definitely old enough to never be emotionally ready to part with those mini cloth binders full of CDs.

        My first paycheck paid for a Sony Walkman that played disks.

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      I bought a graphic hoodie off the Internet by mailing a paper cheque to a PO Box.

      This reminded me of when I first bought something off eBay. I mailed out a check and crossed my fingers.

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    I am right on track to achieve Freedom 35 - living in my car and hopping from place to place to park overnight.

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    The optimistic nature of the 90’s were the best times that ever were. Economically or otherwise. Then this asshole crashed some planes. Then this other asshole officially ended the 90’s by declaring War On Assholes™ in 2001.

    My first proper career (as opposed to just having a job) started in 2008, which made me nervous. While I somehow ended up on the better side of everything, the developments of macroeconomics kept me perpetually nervous about my personal finances.

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      My career (as opposed to jobs) started in 2009 when a “job” opened the possibility of interviewing for a career position and I managed to nail it. I truly didn’t think I’d ever have a career due to lack of credentials (higher ed completion). Luckily, you can be self-taught in my industry and boy am I.

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      Your first paragraph reminded me of a song verse,

      [Verse 2]
      Fuck yeah, I’ve always been anxious
      'Cause I’ve always been in debt
      And when I was eighteen two planes flew into a fucking building
      And we’ve been at war ever since
      We destroyed the environment
      Fuck the government, it’s an embarrassment
      We’re all going die in debt
      
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    I might be an outlier for my age / generation (also UK located)

    I managed to land myself a job good enough to pay rent and save enough for a house deposit, which I bought five years ago. I am still paying my student loan back.

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    My mom (80) has 20 mil or so. (Dad dead)

    But she cares only about partying and home renno and refuses to even buy her kids a cup of coffee.

    So we wait like vultures.

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    I shit-canned about 20 years with active alcoholism, but then made a fairly good showing in the following 15, I’d say I’m probably 10 years behind. Thankfully, my current job has a real pension, rather than a defined-contribution plan. I should be ok, assuming the city is.

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    I can remember people using checks at the grocery store and have been a flea market seller then a barber, a cashier, a dance teacher and finally an accountant, still an accountant. I paid off my student loans in 5 years, and Pell Grant covered the tuition.

    My younger children will have to wait for me to die to get a house, a couple of the older ones did already. Though honestly I think the prices will crash, that’s how I got in the first time, and it’s happened again since that time.

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    Old enough to have used checks (barely), young enough to have access to a metric fuckload of free educational material online to cause me to side-eye the student loan industry before getting sucked into it.

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      One family does that. And while they have a house, they never have enough money for something.

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    In grade school was taught how to write cursive so I could be taught how to use it when writing checks. I was taught that cursive was more resistant to fraud because someone would be comparing writing styles when clearing checks.

    My cleared checks were returned to me by the bank so I would be able to keep record of the transactions.

    My 1st bank had 2 branches and would mail a double sided newsletter to me every month. They had a play area for kids in their lobby since the line to wait for any of their 10 tellers would get long on payday.

    One side of the bank was the smoking section.

    Sometimes if I was in a hurry I would use their drive-up. It had 3 manned stalls, but would use vacuum tubes to send and return checks or deposit slips for the 2nd and 3rd stall.

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        Yup. I forgot to add that when debit cards became a thing you basically used them as a 24x7 bank teller, usually only at the bank. Sometimes your bank would have an atm at its own stand at the grocery store.

        Oh and the delays at the grocery store because of slow check writing or getting a check OK’d.

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    Old enough to have used a cheque, pay with credit cards and a carbon copy click-clack machine, pay for tuition and getting paid pocket money in coins.

    I’m young enough to be unlikely to ever own my own home, unable to officially retire until age 67 and likely unable to live on a pension by the time I’m eligible.