Would you or would you not have a funeral for a toddler should they pass for whatever reason?
I was kinda shocked that my husband thought I was a monster for thinking it’s unnecessary.
The way I see it, you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops. If this happened to me, I’d just chalk it up to a ~2 year time loss and go for another pregnancy. Thoughts?
You’d be surprised. There’s definitely something about it that changes you. I can’t watch most Disney movies without tearing up anymore, and before kids, I would have found that very hard to believe. If that kid is walking, you’ll definitely have grown more attached than you expect.