• leonjhm7788@lemmy.eco.brPortuguês
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    5 hours ago

    Interesting how much people don’t understand. So for u normies, non autistic people here: NO , the skin doesn’t get like that by its own, it’s not moisture, cream or anything, it’s just we can’t stop messing with our thingers and constantly damage the border of nails like that.

    • nekbardrun@lemmy.world
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      21 minutes ago

      For me it is biting and chewing the skin around.

      When it bleeds I also drink the blood.

      Yes, I’m a vampiric who selfcanibalizes myself.

      One day I will evolve to Ouroboros

  • dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de
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    14 hours ago

    I did until like a week ago.

    I’d had enough as they hurt and wasn’t getting better, I do a lot of rock climbing so the chalk makes the issue worse, plus I have not been doing great mentally so diet and hydration was awful.

    What I did:

    • Bought some Nails Inc Cuticle Oil (I am male, but it works). You just add a bit and rub it in. I now use this most days and definitely after climbing.
    • I know that with a poor diet I am likely missing vitamins as some of my nails had lines down them. I take a cheap multi vitamin everyday.
    • I am conscious to drink more water, although I already drink 2-3liter a day.
    • I am making plans to improve my eating habits as I get decision fatigue and really just don’t eat enough. Think I’ve been alive too long that food is just meh at this point. But I went climbing yesterday on hardly anything and felt incredibly sick.

    My nails are better now. My mental health not so much but one step at a time.

    • Camelbeard@lemmy.world
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      5 hours ago

      Comment to find this back later! I’m over 40 and just accepted my hands being fucked up as part of life.

      • dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de
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        2 hours ago

        Here is the current progress. The first one is from 2nd May and the second is today. You can see there has been significant improvement and they are not sore anymore.

    • aubertlone@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      You gave me fairly panic with that nail lines constant and I just had to go look it up.

      No, nails having lines going down them is not necessarily a sign of vitamin deficiency. Turns out that the majority of the time it’s completely harmless and a sign of aging. Both index fingers and my right middle finger have a very faint dark line going from cuticle tip.

      Your mileage may vary, IDK about your personal diet etc. just wanted to chime in about the nails thing

    • FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world
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      11 hours ago

      I didn’t know about the nail ridges-vitamin deficiency thing until my lady told me recently, makes sense. She got me a case of the ensure plus for extra calories to supplement through the day and it does help. Eat some veggies, get some sunlight, maybe go to a shelter and walk some dogs. Hopefully the physical elevates the mental, I’m in a similar spot and hope you get feeling better internet stranger 👍

      • dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de
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        11 hours ago

        Thank you for this.

        I already do plenty of walking as if I didn’t I don’t think I’d be here honestly. I might look into ensure as I’ve had them from the doctor when my diet has been poor in the past.

        Don’t know if you’re the same but life’s like a rollercoaster man. One minute I’m doing good and mentally happy the next I can’t get out of bed and off YouTube.

        It’s like I’m just passing as much time as possible with no end goal in mind. Just death at the end.

        Sorry for being dark.

    • LeroyJenkins@lemmy.world
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      11 hours ago

      I’m positive 95% of your results came just from drinking more water. when your hands look like the picture, it’s almost definitely because you’re chronically dehydrated.

      • FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world
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        11 hours ago

        I think the vitamin deficiency is more likely, I have similar issues. Lived in Phoenix for years and had a water bottle on hand all the time, it’s a part of the bigger picture but not the main driver I’d surmise.

      • dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de
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        11 hours ago

        I am not so sure. As I said in the post I drink a lot of water.

        So I wake up and have a cup of tea and for evening meal I have a can of Pepsi. Everything else in the day is just water and never less than 1.5 litres.

        For me at least I think it was the climbing chalk and poor eating habits so lacking vitamins. I guess I’ll never truly know and it’s good advice to be hydrated.

    • Purple_Gameboy69@lemmy.zipEnglish
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      13 hours ago

      This is very relatable. Can I ask you about your age? I’m 35 and struggling with eating enough my whole life.

  • Rivalarrival@lemmy.todayEnglish
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    15 hours ago

    I used to get this all the time. Now, if I get a hangnail, I liberally drench my hands in lotion, and put on nitrile gloves for an hour or so to force it to soak in.

    A family friend gets me Gojo Hand Medic, which my fragile masculinity appreciates.

    I also found it works well for breaking in leather work gloves.

    • fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk
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      15 hours ago

      It’s a shame that every sink in every public toilets, workplace toilets or other people’s house still has soap with Sodium Laureth Sulphate in. Even the products that say “gentle on skin” tend to be full of the stuff.

      I tried various moisturisers for years with not a lot of effect. Swapping my soap, shower gel and shampoo for ones without SLS in them really made such a difference, and so quickly.

  • tiredofsametab@fedia.io
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    17 hours ago

    Have you tried going to a doctor to see what is wrong? PPE if you work somewhere hazardous? Moisturizing if you’re somewhere very dry?

    • _stranger_@lemmy.world
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      17 hours ago

      When I was a kid, my elementary school was made of bricks that had a surface texture like 20 grit sand paper. Touching that shit started a chain reaction that inevitably ended with hands looking like this. Oh you accidentally brushed the back of your hand against the brick at recess? Hope you like beef jerky skin.