I am not a native English speaker and I have sometimes referred to people as male and female (as that is what I have been taught) but I have received some backlash in some cases, especially for the word “female”, is there some negative thought in the word which I am unaware of?

I don’t know if this is the best place to ask, if it’s not appropriate I have no problem to delete it ^^

  • JoBo@feddit.uk
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    8 months ago

    Maybe it’s only true of my aging generation but we never really encountered grammar until we were required to learn French.

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      8 months ago

      Interesting, english is my third language - but I’m just bad at grammar and spelling in general. Definitely learned grammar in school - just forgot all about it.

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      8 months ago

      something I’d like to add is that while you were not told the rules, you likely learned quite a few of them subconsciously.

      personally to this day I struggle with what present perfect and others are, but I can use them easily. similarly I can’t say which grammatical case is which in my native language but I have no issue using them.

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        8 months ago

        Of course. But understanding why calling women “females” is a big red flag is not about your intuitive grasp of the language. We dehumanise people by nounising their adjectives all the time. Are you epileptic, or an epileptic, or just a person with epilepsy?

        It’s harder to explain to someone with a poor grasp of English grammar, that’s all. People who are fluent or near fluent because they grew up hearing and speaking a language will often struggle to explain something like this. People who had to learn the grammar consciously probably would not.

        Only biologists and coppers need to use “female” as a noun. Everyone else can speak proper, like.

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          8 months ago

          ah I must have misunderstood your comment , I think you may have replied to a different comment than you have intended to ?

          also just as a side note , one counter example is many autistic people , myself included prefer the term autistic person rather than person with autism , though to be fair that is moreso an adjective but the way you worded that sentence suggests its also incorrect in some cases yeah um

          also I have never met a single copper , really must open myself to new experiences /j :)