Don’t worry about things you can’t control.

Focus on the things you can control.

Confidence is sexy. Having your life in order is sexy. Having your own life agenda, life activities, life goals is sexy. Physical fitness is good for you. Having a active and full social calendar is good for you. Having hobbies that are interesting is good for you. All of this combined together will give you confidence, and that is sexy!

Don’t maximize your life for other people, do it for yourself, and other people will naturally be intrigued by it.