• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    If bigoted language is common in the spaces you frequent that says a lot about what your lived experience has been.

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      You should print this comment thread and take it to your therapist. People make references to sex all the time, in ways that have nothing to do with sex. Expressions are a thing. Which you know, 100%. It’s just the superiority need of yours. “The spaces you frequent” is the most condescending shit I’ve read in months. 🤮

      Next you’ll bizarrely accuse someone of being a pedophile if they ever wrote the word “fucking” as an adjective in the same sentence with “kids”. This level of petty bullshit is 1000% driving people to the right. It won’t drive me to the right exactly, but I definitely can see more experiences like this eventually removing my ability to care at all when people suggest some specific language is problematic.

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        It won’t drive me to the right exactly,

        I get the feeling that you’re already there, you just prefer a different aesthetic from the red hats.

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          Your only move is condescension. You aren’t superior to anyone and words can’t change that. You don’t know shit about me from this bullshit conversation, except perhaps that I react poorly to being shamed. I have a feeling there’s a lot you don’t know.

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              Reacting defensively is human nature, something you are pretending to be above, pathetically. Wanting to feel superior is also human nature, but it’s at a pathological level for you, if your comments bear any relation to how you are offline.

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                Usually when it’s pointed out to me that I’m reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

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                  lol I’m sure that happens, just like you totally reflected when I attempted to tell you these things are bad:

                  • condescension
                  • pretending to not understand common expressions
                  • stating expressions mean exactly one literal thing which you chose, and anyone who feels differently can just shut the fuck up or else be objectively a bigot.

                  Oh sorry I just got weirdly sexual again, I said “fuck”! :o Oh and shit, now I just referenced oral sex with that emoji. Arghh “shit” references to something that comes out near genitals!! Commits seppuku like a REAL leftist would be required to do.

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                    Commits seppuku like a REAL leftist would be required to do.

                    You could just not be weird about taking criticism from marginalized people, I think that’s the ask.

                    pretending to not understand common expressions

                    I’m actually not great with English idioms (ESL girlie), could you explain what this meant for me?