Like why some apartments allow no tenants with pets. Living in an apartment building, some tenants around me absolutely fucking suck with owning pets. Allowing them to bark, wrestle and play loudly, letting them take dumps everywhere and not picking it up. People actually running with their pets with no leashes when leashes are required.
Yeah I side more with apartment offices that have balls to say no pets. Nobody wants the noise.
When I was a child I thought everything was run by grown ups, who had the answer to everything. Then I grew up and saw everything as run by children, who made everything up as they go. Now I see everything as run by animals with insatiable appetites.
Kids who came to school in dirty clothes, hair messy, dirt on their hands and faces. I thought they were just gross pigpen types. Not till I was older and less sheltered did I meet families where the adults had other stuff going on and didn’t see to their kids’ well being. I was lucky enough to have had no idea what it meant to be neglected.
Knowing why your parents told you not to turn the cabin lights on in the car while driving at night when I started driving myself. You can’t fucking see shit outside the car!
When I was am apprentice we were not allowed to use the leaf blower or workshop air to blow out the workshop.
Now I am ac workshop manager they are the most infuriating noises when you’re trying to work in the office and get paperwork and phone calls done and someone is using a leaf blowerr
Don’t leaf blowers also have a sound decibel level that can cause hearing loss? Another good reason not to use it for that purpose
When the argument against an initiative says, “greedy developers” that is just a populist NIMBY smear spoken by even greedier, already-existing landlords.
I actually voted against a housing development one time because I got played by those words. I’m a little wiser now.
Working fast food jobs versus working a professional job. There’s a reason people work in fast food whether that be age, felony status, crap work history, education status (not always), or they are just shitty people.
There is a general unprofessional and childish mentality working at those places that I thought was normal when I worked them. When I moved into corporate culture it was difficult for me for like 3-4 years and it took a long time for me to understand that it’s a different culture. You don’t say off color shit or fuck around. Which I am okay with. I don’t have to deal with casual sexual harassment, childish quitting displays, abuse, high school behavior, etc.
There is still some gossip but it’s not hard to isolate yourself from it and people who do that shit typically don’t last that long.
Stoically treating people well when they are terrible to you isn’t going to bring them around. DON"T put effort into the problem people in life. “the idiot by fyodor dostoevsky” is a warning not a guide book. Those people will fuck you up and not remember .
“Pets are noisy, apartments should allow no tenants with pets”. A sincere question: what pet owners, desperately looking for a place to live, should do? Ditch their pets? Abandon them? Throw them out?
One could extrapolate and state that “babies are noisy”. After all, they can cry loud. Lots of places don’t allow tenants with babies. What a mother with her baby looking for a place to live is supposed to do in such a situation where every landlord denies renting a place to her? What should she do, put her baby into adoption? Throw them out?
Geez. This is one of the many reasons why the modern world is deadwalking towards the cliff nowadays…
Unpopular opinion maybe, but if your housing or financial situation is not stable enough where having a pet could put you in such a difficult position, then you shouldn’t have a pet.
I have yet to hear a baby cry so loudly that I can hear it through my walls. So far in the 3 years I’ve lived here, not one instance can I recall or know of babies crying that loudly. Kids, who’re able to talk and walk, they can be loud yes but they’re manageable. It’s lazy parenting that lets them be that way. Pets, generally, they’re going to be loud and they’re hard to control because nobody puts in the effort.
Now I have a question back at you - did you read the part where I said that some owners fucking suck at being owners or did you selectively skip that part to make the comment that you’ve made? Learn to read, it’d help you sometime.
Mostly myself. When I was a teenager, I was an insufferable, arrogant shit person. I got better during college and even better after getting my first job, I started to understand better why I was such an arrogant asshole and why people, especially women, really would not rather interact with me.
Quality was mentioned, but I’ll add my view. Most everything is disposable now, whether you go with the upgraded option or not. Everyday items, cars, houses, tools, services…we’re surrounded by junk.
At Boeing the bean counters took over, look at them now. Most other corporations are doing the same, just with lower stakes.
It’s not just stuff–it’s interaction too. People are so hooked on throwaway videos, social media, etc that our collective attention span has severely diminished since the internet took hold. I was reading a book recently, and one of the characters described using a tactic of keeping another character off balance in conversation to gain an advantage over them. I feel like this is being done to all of us on the grand scale, intentionally or not.
What I’ve learned is that these trends will continue until we do something about it. I try to bring what quality and value I can to those around me, pass on what wisdom I’ve gained, and be a good influence. Even to strangers when possible. It’s up to us to carry and keep the torch lit.
I used to not understand how people could spend so much money on a single meal at a really fancy restaurant.
But then, on a special occasion my wife convinced me to go to a Michelin star restaurant. It was amazing, honestly the best “food experience” I’ve ever had, so many crazy flavours, etc etc.
So now, i can understand why someone might go to a very fancy restaurant once or twice a year. I probably still won’t, but I do understand why someone would.
Why we’re choosing to destroy ourselves due to catastrophic climate change. I just…I get it now, but there too many facets of it for me to want to list them all right now.
But I understand it. It doesn’t make it justifiable, just comprehensive.
The apartments with pets thing, in my building currently there’s an owner who put their dog out in the balcony at night and it would just bark for hours. I sleep at around midnight with barking in the background. I don’t even know until how late it usually does it
I thought the worst part of dating was getting my heart broken, but what I remember best are the girls I let down.
Being an ostensibly-male-ish high schooler with a bad grasp of English and good looks had gotten me so much attention.
And every goddamn one of them was disappointed that I was ace and sex-repulsed and didn’t have the vocabulary to express it at the time. They thought I was spurning their advances deliberately!
(Of course, looking back, I bet that none of them actually wanted to be with an incredibly lesbian trans woman. (And yet, somehow, I married an ace trans woman of my own, shit’s nice.) I’m trying to work on not feeling bad that I disappointed those women, and that they found better matches of their own.)
Pardon my ignorance, but “ace”?
A contracted version of “asexual,” those who do not feel sexual attraction.
Asexual.
I didn’t understand the importance of quality and the true premium you pay for certain things. I often would buy the cheapest thing I could find to serve a certain function. After awhile, you find yourself replacing cheap things because they wear out quickly. Buying quality can means paying a lot more, but it also usually means you don’t have to replace it much, if at all.
I kind of agree with you. I bought my first set of tools extremely cheap, like $25 for a whole tool case. I keep replacing the things I use regularly with better quality stuff, and the things I don’t use often don’t get enough wear to impact usage in the first place. But there are things like my Hilti power drill, which I do not want to fail whatsoever and as such I paid the premium upfront.
Yeah, I’ve done similar. Bought a “all-in-one” tool kit that includes almost every basic tool. While it is nice to have one of everything, you quickly realize that the metal is so soft that some of them only last two or three uses. So, then you replace it with a better one.
I’m a little on the flipside with this one. I’m figuring it out that some of the best things out there, aren’t usually the ones that cost a premium. It just boils down to what that something is and whether you want it’s best version. Like, some of the brand-names in stores aren’t usually some of the best that’s out there compared to generic brands. I know this from some of the review videos I’ve watched like Project Farm on YouTube.
I find this to be true with things like store brand foods but I’ve found the majority of the time if you buy something you need durability out of, you will regret buying the cheap shit
The tool method seems to be proven true. I’ve heard that you buy the cheapest tool until you get one that does the job for you. Like if the cheapest tool breaks on you, you move a step up above it until you’re comfortable with the value and quality of a tool that both does its job and lasts a long time.
You can apply that to many things.
I hadn’t heard about that. Only problem with that is once you buy several cheap tools you could’ve bought the most expensive option once.
Yeah, but that’s only really true for the things you use often, isn’t it? Sometimes you just need something that gets the work done and it’s okay if it takes a little more effort than using the premium one because you can’t justify spending that much for a one time use. Especially so if you need more than one specialty tool, because that adds up quickly.
Project Farm absolutely rips
I’m finding this on a lot of the “deals” my wife has been finding on the TikTok shop. Piece of junk falls apart, so it inevitably gets replaced with a more expensive one I didn’t really need in the first place.
Oh shit. She might be playing me.
