I never know how to answer this. I grew up till middle school in Canada and the rest of my school in India. I rarely get dentist with many Indian traditions, but I also didn’t spend enough time in Canada to be a “real” Canadian.

I just flip a coin in my head and answer each time. And then get the follow-up asking where my parents are from. Just ask my race, you coward.

I notice this a lot in Canada and the US. I think it’s a weird internalization of the fact that these countries are made up of colonizers and people the colonizers brought in to do their dirty work for them.

Let me preface this by saying I’m white, and I lived in pretty much the same place until I was about 20. Most of my friends and acquaintances were also white and also born and raised in the area. My take on this is based on that lived experience. I am very aware that this question can take on very dark racist tones depending on the context.

“Where are you from” in a lot of cases doesn’t mean “you look different or you talk different,” it means “where did your ancestors come from”? When people ask, or volunteer this information, they’re talking about that family history. This is how you get people from Alberta with four generations of family history in Alberta claiming that they’re “a quarter German, a quarter Italian, an eighth Irish, and an eighth English”, and that’s the type of answer they expect when they ask a white or white-passing person this question.

What kind of job?

People ask me where I’m from a lot because they can’t place my accent, but I don’t think it’s different at work than elsewhere.

I worked a phone line for awhile and people asked where I was from sometimes, but not the whole grandparents spiel.

I’m swedish and living in France and I get that question a lot (but not about my parents/grandparents wtf?)

If cute girl: you have to guess! Then get very fake outraged if she says Germany etc. Friendly banter ensues.

Otherwise it’s just people who want to chit chat with you so just roll with it and expect the classic jokes (for me it’s IKEA, Volvo, surströmming…).

Do you have an unusual or oddly spelled surname?

I do. It’s by marriage, and coworkers sometimes awkwardly ask about it. It won’t be the first question they ask - because that would be weird, but it often comes up if it sort of fits the conversation.

Newfoundland has a very particular accent, do you speak with a strong accent?

Why would you say Canada? Is Canada homogenous from coast to coast? If I’m talking to people and getting to know where they are from zero of them say “america,” because that doesn’t give any information whatsoever, what do you even expect them to respond with? “Wow I’m from canada too!”

I have a classic NZ voice as well as a tan and get asked this often because I’m in the most Caucasian place outside of Europe (I’ll let you guess). Half the time they don’t even assume where I’m from because they don’t have enough education about the world to hold any stereotypes about me (which makes them draw a blank about countries), which ironically gives me the freedom to respond however I want.

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Why are asking us instead of them? Surely they would know.

I was created within the bounds of the milky way galaxy.

“Why do you ask?”

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“Why do you feel entitled to an answer?”

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They’ll figure it out.

After the second time you should just respond “don’t overthink it”

I’ve watched a lot of Canadian TV and worked with a lot of Canadians and the Newfy accent is pretty distinct, even in Canada. If you’ve just got a touch of it you might sound vaguely Irish or Scottish. That would explain why people are asking where you’re from.

Sounds like the correct answer to the question is Newfoundland, if it isn’t the accent it is probably some regional colloquialisms.

When someone asks me where I am from I normally say the city / province. I would never answer Canada while I was in Canada having the conversation.