Tinder was a paradigm shift. It’s success around 2015 started to flip public perception of online dating. Suddenly it was for all kinds of young people that were looking for the convenience of profile matching. A rising tide lifts all boats so legacy platforms shared in the popularity, also getting runoff from the non-target audience of the newer apps. The change in perception of online dating allowed people to appreciate its pragmatism. We’re in an age of busy people optimizing their lives. The structure and accessibility of online dating just fits with those kinds of people.
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limitedduck@awful.systemsto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How can you apply "think before you speak" if it isn't feasible to pause for 15 seconds between every sentence you say mid conversation????0·6 months agoYou don’t need to give explicit details of your coworkers’ lives, but from your writing it really seemed to me that you were more interested in mechanically optimizing conversation. This isn’t necessarily a bad perspective, but people already do that organically by understanding each other more and learning their history. The route of good conversation follows logically from there through empathy.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How can you apply "think before you speak" if it isn't feasible to pause for 15 seconds between every sentence you say mid conversation????0·6 months agoYou’re descriptions kind of make your coworkers like NPCs. If you want to have better conversations you should probably get to know them better as people. That can allow you to understand the why of their particulars and eventually guide your conversations more organically.
Apologies, I misread your comment and though you said protonvpn was untrustworthy. I’m not a VPN user so I’m not up to date with the rep of any of them, but I am a proton mail user so I was worried about the technical integrity of one of their products
As far as I understand it, proton is about the last VPN option you can trust with port forwarding
Could you explain this part please? What makes them untrustworthy?
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Breaking Changes to latest Element serverEnglish2·7 months agoFantastic, thanks for this. Any reason you didn’t go to 17?
The latest builds broke that for me. It crashes completely when I try.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•questions about sex toys: would it be a bad idea to fully insert a vibrating egg in my bum?0·9 months agoIf the feeling is in your gut and not your ass it may be too deep.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How would you describe a power-lifter-type physique specifically?0·9 months ago“Yoked to the max”
(Or just “yoked”)
limitedduck@awful.systemsto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you voice chat without bothering roommates?0·9 months agoIf you want to reduce how audible you are outside your room you can add some sound dampening material to your walls and door and seal air cracks around your door. Those black spiked foam wall panels or heavy curtains are probably best for sound dampening, but something as simple and cheap as paper egg cartons on your walls will greatly reduce how much sound gets through.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If the US dissolves for whatever reason and goes into a state of anarchy what would happen to the rest of the world?0·9 months agoWe would need to ignore how destitute the rest of the world would need to be for a superpower to full-on collapse in its entirety. I’m also assuming you mean that there’s zero semblance of order or organized society.
The military would get recalled and leave American bases, strategic territory, and other occupied areas undefended and open to capture. Economies that rely heavily on trade with the US would need to find new trading partners to prevent potential economic collapse and it might not even save them if they can’t get similar enough agreements or pricing. There are countries that also rely heavily on straight US aid, either monetarily or goods, that would collapse themselves or force them to align with whichever country would give them new aid. Global healthcare would dip without the drugs manufactured by the US. No American commodities like oil or food makes prices of those commodities go up everywhere else.
People around the world would be afraid. Whatever you may think of the American government and US politics, the average US citizen/resident is quite removed from the goings on of the federal government. The states on their own have a lot of independence and some would likely survive a collapse in federal leadership, but if federal, state, and local government all collapsed together it would be something serious enough to warrant attention from other countries with similar structure to the US.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Star Citizen players after giving Chris Roberts a month’s pay for a 400-meter Liberator-class carrier by Shitfuck Industries [Day 5]0·9 months agoWhat exists right now is full of jank, but if you played it or even followed the patch to patch development you could see they’re consistently building foundations for a game that is simultaneously:
- FPS
- MMO
- Fully physicalized
- Physics based
- Open world
- High fidelity
- Fully persistent
Considering how no game like what SC is supposed to be has come out in the time SC has been in development, it must not be that easy of a game to make.
I got into SC in December of last year and have seen their progress and have been to play and participate in all of it while only spending 45 USD on the base package. Nothing else is needed to join since all ships eventually come out in game as buyable for in game money and I bought nearly every ship like that.
CIG certainly sells ships to whales, but to them it’s necessary for their commitment to no publishers or large investors.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Star Citizen players after giving Chris Roberts a month’s pay for a 400-meter Liberator-class carrier by Shitfuck Industries [Day 5]0·9 months agoIt’s been 12 years and no game like what it’s supposed to be has come out so I guess it’s not that easy of a game to make
I don’t like how absent of shit this post is
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Jellyfin: The Free Software Media System@lemmy.ml•Can raspberry pi 3b+ run a jellyfin server?English0·9 months agoIf the client doesn’t support the codec or resolution of the media then it’ll need transcoding
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Jellyfin: The Free Software Media System@lemmy.ml•If jellyfin was a person, what kind of person would they be?English0·10 months agoThat person that is kind of lacking in social skills, still weirdly opinionated about really specific things, doesn’t care enough about their appearance for how old they are, and several other holdovers from being a nerdy high school shut in, but is very slowly becoming better. They’re trying to understand how to have more flexible conversations with people, figuring out a clothing style that works for them, and just doing some general growing up. They’re still kind of hard to be around, but you can tell they’ve made progress and that’s all you can really ask of them.
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Am I wrong for thinking article titles like this are demeaning?0·11 months agoIt’s a double edged sword. Everybody’s got a different line for when something descriptive inadvertently becomes prescriptive
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Technology@lemmy.world•Man who threw away $500M Bitcoin hard drive sues city for right to search landfillEnglish0·11 months agoWhat does “let him try and find the hard drive” really mean? Does he just want access to the landfill or is he expecting some kind of cooperation with the workers? How disruptive is he going to be?
limitedduck@awful.systemsto Privacy@lemmy.ml•How do I use Istagram as private as possible?0·11 months agoUse an Instagram-specific site container to isolate your activity from your normal browsing. Imo this is really the only thing that matters that doesn’t have to do with your self control. You want to make sure Meta gets nothing from cross-site tracking and containerizing IG should do that. Also, don’t visit links to and from IG. Look it up manually through IG search.
Because it’s the same kind of tired “I knew it all along” comment that’s under every depressing post like this - a comment that simultaneously undervalues both deep analysis and scientific rigor in service of a cheap, emotional moment of superiority over those who “haven’t figured it out yet”.