I hate deep breathing/diaphragm breathing around others, it’s loud enough for them and they always ask if I’m angry, upset etc. How do I breathe quieter while still having it be deep?

  • bradorsomething@ttrpg.network
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    11 months ago

    Do a complete inhale and exhale over 10-15 seconds. Move a lot of air slowly. The inhale should physically push out your ribs and stomach and the exhale should push in your stomach and you should feel your rib muscles hurt. As a bonus you can freak out people counting your respirations.

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    11 months ago

    My nose used to be tight and hissy. Then I did a lot of meditation where I put my attention on the feeling of breath in the tip of my nose.

    It loosened up good. No more tightness. Almost never get a clogged nose either.

    I have since switched to a different meditation technique but my nose remains good.

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    11 months ago

    Is your nasal septum ok? Maybe it could be deviated (almost all are, but at different degrees) and creates the sound you hear.

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      11 months ago

      I had that after getting hit with a hockey stick as a kid. Got it straightened in my 20’s and it made a big difference.

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    11 months ago

    You let your passive breathing be passive breathing and you actively breathe when you need to actively breathe.

    I’ve found my breathing in general has improved since I started trying to institute a 20:80 rule.

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      11 months ago

      since I started trying to institute a 20:80 rule.

      A… wut?

      Why are you even thinking about your breathing at all? Your body will handle it, that’s why you don’t die when you go to sleep.

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        11 months ago

        You are now manual breathing.

        You’re welcome.

        Some of us have a little voice that never stops saying that and you need to work on that.

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            11 months ago

            Okay Mr cool guy.

            Congrats on never losing the game.

            It’s an honor to have met a Chosen.

            (Smosh reference… in case you don’t get it.)

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        11 months ago

        20% of my day, intentionally breathe strongly and manually. 80% of the day, try not to breathe manually.

  • lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca
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    11 months ago

    See an ear nose and throat specialist. They have have a look up your snoot and see what’s up.