Am I "trans enough"

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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 months ago

So I know everyone is going to answer “yes”, but I want actual real thoughts. I just want to know where I fit in.

I’m AMAB, and present as male, at least on the surface. I’ve always felt that was wrong though. But I don’t necessarily think I’m a woman. I wish I was more feminine. And recently I started full body laser hair removal, and I have pretty long hair, and currently have my toe nails painted. But I also have a beard, and otherwise present totally as cis.

Am I “trans”? I don’t feel “cis”, but I feel like calling myself trans just isn’t accurate and is inappropriate. Is there any other option?

And a complicating factor is that I’m basically only attracted to female presenting people. I see a lot of mtf trans people posting online “t4t”. Would other trans people consider me “trans”?

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Heya! Nice to hear from you again :3
I think you’re confusing me with @Mia. My handle is @shy_mia.
- 🏳️‍⚧️MiaCD🏳️‍⚧️@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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  Ohhh for some reason I didnt see ur full handle x3
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  So you are telling me you are not all the same person? I thought y’all were one but different alts! No way… Can I become a Mia too?

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