I am 14M(AGAB) and started feeling gender dysphoria after starting puberty. At first I thought that I was agender. Soon, I found myself imagining being an AGAB agender, so I decided that I was not agender but a trans girl. However, after identifying as trans, I only feel gender dysphoria once a while, and it’s not string enough as before. I am now thinking that I might not be trans, and what I felt before was just a normal puberty experience. I’m afraid that I was thinking about myself all wrong.

  • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.com
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    1 day ago

    You’re still young and learning about yourself. I thought I was technically cishet until my late 20’s, so I was wrong for far longer. Being wrong is just a step for learning. If you realize you aren’t trans, is it a big deal? Why? Because you just don’t want to be wrong? Because you want to be a gender other than your AGAB? If the latter, I think that’s a pretty good hint you might be trans of some sort.