Probably more important to find people you vibe with and like doing the same things you do than to specifically seek out token characters from different demographics.
Also if you’re excluding people from being your friend because they’re gay, you don’t deserve to have friends anyway.
If I could get over the crippling anxiety of meeting new people, I’d be happy to hang out with anyone regardless of who they like.
Damn, weren’t gay men just teaching us empathy last week thanks to Obama?
I can’t wait to see what hetero deficiency the media drops in your lap to fix for us next week.
Thank you so much, and I’m sorry?
Living in San Francisco, if I met someone with no lgbtq+ friends I would probably steer clear of them.
Isn’t a decent chunk of San Francisco part of one massive polycule by now, anyway?
Aw jeez I wasn’t invited
The success of the Greater Portland Polycule cannot be understated
If they don’t have enough friends, maybe the problem is them/their personality?
Bro, the demographics don’t matter. Just make friends with the people that you mutually enjoy the company of. If they’re not a horrible person, then you should be friends. Expanding the demographics you’re willing to accept as friends can only really expand how many people you have as friends. Unless some of your friends have some sort of hatred for some of your other friends.
Maybe, but honestly I think they should really just focus on befriending good people that they get along with. Any given straight man may find that in a gay man, but plenty of others will find close friendships in people regardless of gender or orientation.
What the living fuck. My gay friends have always just been normal dudes that like to suck cock. Nothing special about them. They aren’t an enlightened emotionally available class of supermen. They like video games, weed, and sci-fi, that’s why we got along. Common interests, not some unacknowledged desire to broaden our horizons.
This article is 90s gay.
what now gay men have to solve straight mens’ problems too as if they don’t have enough of their own caused by the very same group
I don’t know what I expected.
People are lonely, everyone could do with a few good friends no matter their sexual orientation. Gay men are people and therefore have people problems, i don’t think they have it better or worse in this regard. I personally haven’t meet a gay man who has been that much different from other men, so i find this article very odd, or at least built on stereotypes (maybe just me?)
I have a long rant about the loneliness epidemic in me but ill spare everyone. main thing is this isn’t as new thing, but that does lite to help and doesn’t add value to the conversation.
Wouldn’t gay women as friends for straight men make more sense?
How about a n NBC sitcom about a Republican racist asshole who moves to Seattle and makes a ton of friends only to find out they are all gay at the nude bike riding parade?
I remember dat phan did a bit like this:
This neighborhood is so nice.
Everyone is holding hands.
O look a Walmart! wait? Gay-mart? wtf typo?
W/eHey that man stole my… curtains!?
, many INSECURE straight men/ or “straight” are quite afraid of potentially gay men approaching, even staring in thier direction freaks them out. plus the insecure hypermasculine communites like, gym/bodybuilders are extra homophobic. on some yt videos people who follow some bodybuilders, they are so afraid that they wear masks so people cant potentially hit on them, someone called them out why they are wearing a mask, are they gay? and another comment tried defending them saying they dont want gay people thirsting over him.(you put yourself in public for viewing thats on you)
I just made a gay friend from school and it’s honestly great. Were both gamers and he has a ton of cute girl friends that he has introduced me too lol
As a completely straight man myself I find the gays to give the best blowjobs.
Boy, do I have news for you…
You can absolutely be straight and have gay sex. A hole is a hole. I’ve known a few straight men who have done it and still don’t seek out men or find them attractive. Conversely, I know gay men who have fucked women and don’t actively seek out women to this day.
A circumstantial fuck is just that: you getting your rocks off when given the opportunity. We don’t need to be questioning people’s identities as if we know other people’s minds like our own. That’s not our place and we don’t need to be prescriptivists.
Imo if you fuck a dude in any way, you lose straight as a title forever and you become at minimum heteroflexible.
Source: Gold Star cishet who wishes to be even slightly gayer cus damn it looks fun
Fair enough! 😂
Don’t let your dreams be dreams. Hop on grindr and you’ll have 20+ offers in a few hours.
Don’t think I haven’t worked through this in my head lol
I’ve never been a mushroom fan, but every 5-10 years, I taste them again to see if my tastes have changed, though they never do. Does that mean I do in fact like mushrooms?
Actually scratch that question - it’s not a decision that anyone but the person in question can make. Correcting someone about their orientation is a major overstep.
(I know you weren’t the person who initially did that, I’m just speaking generally)
If every few years you taste mushroom again, you seem to be quite open to the concept of potentially liking mushroom.
Well, yeah, I’m not a bigot.
I don’t like mushrooms though. Like the person I responded to wishes they were less straight, I wish I did like mushrooms, in my case because it would be more convenient to be able to cook with more ingredients.
Okay. But if there’s a term for people who refuse to ever eat mushrooms, then you’re not that.
Imo if you fuck a dude in any way, you lose straight as a title forever
I knew straight women were a myth!
