im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

    • hddsx@lemmy.ca
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      13 days ago

      This is a false equivalency, my dude. There are definitely good reasons for people who generally face systemic discrimination (ie. Women, black people) to have separate communities from those they face discrimination from (men, white people). It’s not like they are trying to divorce themselves from society at large.

      • Electricd@lemmybefree.net
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        8 days ago

        Why not have a community of people that are against this discrimination, rather than just having the targets of it? I feel like it doesn’t really help…

        And anyways, pleading your cause publicly will always be better imo. Better to avoid confirmation bias and other bs

        • hddsx@lemmy.ca
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          13 days ago

          I know you edited your post, which still has things I think are wrong, but OP is absolutely correct based on your initial post… JS

            • hddsx@lemmy.ca
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              13 days ago

              A few points:

              1. It could be a mistake, but adding context without labeling it as an addition or an edit changes the view of the discourse that has already been made

              2. You once again flipped the discriminatory group and the group discriminatory against which is at best a misunderstanding and at worse malicious

              3. You are STILL wrong and are mansplaining. You don’t need to insert yourself into women’s discourse. You are literally the type of person women’s only spaces are built to protect against. While yes, help from those who are not discriminated against definitely help the discriminated, that help comes in listening to what they have to say and support. Your expressed viewpoint is more or less: “I am very important and you should hear what I have to say because it is helpful”. You are, intentionally or not, giving subtle hints that you are better than women and that’s why you should be allowed to force your way into their discourse. In this day and age, we call that sexism.

              Maybe that’s not your intention, but boy your writing is full of red flags