wait those jeans are lowkey cute af tho

I personally use dockge instead of portainer. portainer is great but it’s way overkill for my setup, dockge is much simpler

Friendly reminder that Christianity is the biggest and most dangerous cult in the world

I’ve used endeavour as my daily driver for the last year, it’s been great for me. Highly recommend regular backups though, as it’s a bleeding edge rolling release distro, so more likely to break unexpectedly than ubuntu

Ugh, job websites are unbearable. Filtering through all the lies and bullshit is so draining

I came out almost immediately for a couple reasons:

• my mental health was total garbage and boymoding was literally unbearable

• I knew that most of my friends and family were pretty accepting and open minded

• I lived in a very diverse and accepting city at the time

• this was during the height of Covid restrictions so nobody was going out anyway

Basically the discomfort of hiding my true self overrode the fear of being openly and visibly trans lol

Fortunately everyone I came out to was really positive about it. I was prepared to cut out a few of my extended family members if it came to that, but thankfully I didn’t need to

The only thing I wish could have gone differently is that I stayed in the closet at work. I had some problematic coworkers so I didn’t feel safe being openly trans there. Unsurprisingly I didn’t last long at that job lol

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aaaaaah this is so adorable! congratulations I’m so happy for you!!!

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damn she just like me frfr

Aw I love this community, so many wonderful replies already <3 I don’t have much to add that hasn’t been said already, so I’ll just say that everything you’re feeling and thinking is real and valid and even though we’re total strangers I’m really proud of you for taking the time to reflect and deepen your understanding of yourself because it can definitely be really scary but it’s so worth it in the end <3

Hang in there girl! I get the monthly cycle as well, for me the first two or three months were definitely more intense, and it’s gotten easier and more predictable since. As with all things ymmv but if you can stick it out hopefully it should get easier with time. Sending virtual hugs, be gentle and kind to yourself <3