• phdepressed@sh.itjust.works
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    18 hours ago

    If you think about having a gf, there’s a lot more to the relationship than sex. Nonsexual physical intimacy, much less anything emotional is extremely lacking for the average male not in a relationship.

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      17 hours ago

      Yeah, see, I’m thinking “order 1 gfe to go” isn’t for me.

      I’ve been separated/divorced (for about 2, years) from a relationship where the intimacy was one sided. For 11 years I stayed married cause that was the only girlfriend I had too.

      A GFE sounds like it would be a nightmare for the provider. Especially because I don’t know how I’d handle it emotionally.

      I gotta date real women first. Somehow.

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        13 hours ago

        I can’t speak to it as I haven’t done one but I can get the desire. I never went on a date or had a gf or any sexual experience until I was 25 and it wasn’t for lack of trying…paying for it would be a sort of bandaid to the issue of loneliness but I wonder if it decreases the chance of becoming an incel.