I was talking to a female friend and young Arnold Schwarzenegger came up on conversation. I pulled up a picture of him and spent a long time looking at it. Then said "I am trying to decide if he is attractive.

I know for me women who are fit and toned, attractive. Once a woman is muscular, attractive falls off a cliff. Probably because they start looking like a man.

The Arnold picture

  • Everythingispenguins@lemmy.worldOP
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    6 months ago

    First of WTF?

    Second believe it or not it’s actually okay to not find certain physical or mental attributes attractive. Attractiveness of others differs for everyone. It isn’t okay to then be mean or disrespectful to those you are not attracted to.

    Weirdly enough if you read my post I didn’t say muscular women were bad, I never said they should not be muscular and I definitely did not say women should hide their muscles.

    So please just fuck off, thank you

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      If you read my comments, you’d see that I said everyone is free to be attracted to whatever and whoever they wish, but saying that women look like men when they have muscles is incredibly sexist.

      Maybe phrase things differently if you want to be understood better.

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        6 months ago

        Looking back on your comment history you seem to have a lot of down vote. I take it you like to say mean things. I am sorry you feel that way. It must be miserable.

        Here is every comment you made on your post feel free to show me where you said “…everyone is free to be attracted to whatever and whoever they wish,…”

        You think being muscular makes a woman look like a man? Sooo… muscles are for men only. And women should hide theirs?

        Weird take.

        It’s one thing to not be attracted to muscular women, but to say that it’s because muscular builds are “manly” is sexist as fuck.

        I’d love to see how you can’t make this relevant to the idea that women shouldn’t have large muscles.

        Please go on…

        Sometimes gifts just wrap themselves.

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        “I don’t like oranges in desserts”

        That’s perfectly valid and nothing wrong with that ✨✨✨

        “It’s weird when oranges are used in sweet things because they nory are sour”

        OMG what so oranges can’t be sweet now they should hide their sweetness? 😡 That’s incredibly tasteless wow. You should N E V E R explain why your preference means away from something you [descriptor]ist!

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          6 months ago

          “I don’t like oranges in deserts”

          That’s perfectly valid and nothing wrong with that.

          “I think oranges in deserts isn’t feminine”

          Sexist bullshit.

          FTFY.