I’m 19M, my girlfriend is 17F. We’ve been dating for almost a year now. Her family has no idea though, because she refuses to tell them; and it honestly hurts. My family loves her. Her family’s Muslim and she says that’s the reason she can’t tell them yet, but she will… eventually. I get that they’re Muslim, but come on, we live in the West and it’s a free country. I’ve never pressured her about it but it still upsets me.

  • Stamets@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    It isn’t complicated.

    I responded to a dude who was being openly discriminatory and you responded in such a way to say “No, I’m allowed to discriminate because nonsensical reasoning.”

    It is as simple as the fact that you are a hateful bigot.

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      3 days ago

      This basically reduces to some paradox of tolerance type shit, I’m a bigot because I discriminate against bigotry? Ok.