My dad has recently been caught having an affair with his young personal assistant. Huge scandal; mom was very angry. Now they’re in the middle of divorce proceedings. Mom moved out, the other woman moved in and I chose to stay with him because we’re super close; he’s like my best friend. Now mom’s telling me to go and live with her and go no contact with him cause he’s a bad person and by continuing having a relationship with him I’m condoning his actions and “ignoring her suffering”. My relationship with my dad hasn’t changed, I don’t see why I should end it.
I suspect they have either been on the receiving end of infidelity, or (given that they’re from Kansas), they have small-minded views shaped by religion and conservatism
Either way, they’re not going to be swayed by reason when reason isn’t how they came by their stance in the first place
I’m glad they are the only such voice though so far. It gives me hope that this kid will get some decent advice overall
Not from Kansas. Well traveled and have seen a bunch of relationships. I’ve seen people get divorced and I’ve seen infidelity.
I have immeasurably more respect for those that get divorced no matter how hard it is. Breaking the vow through being a cheater is about as low as you can go.
Sorry you don’t hold marriage to sanctity it should be
Fuck off, junior
I’ve been married. I’m engaged again right now
I absolutely believe in the sanctity of marriage, so you can shove your self-righteousness up your arse.
I stand by my position that people who see black and white in situations are simpletons.
Says the man posting from lemmynsfw. Things in your second marriage must be going super well
If you held marriage to any standard, a man breaking his vows to sleep WITH HIS ASSISTANT should be pretty deplorable. And recommended an atleast young adult to just brush past that like it’s just another mistake is insane.
Yeah, just look the other way that he figuratively slapped your mom across the face. Atleast he’s cool though
Ah yes, you’re one of those who think porn is a sin. Explains a lot about your attitude in the comments here.
Never said porn was a sin
But that person had a choice to make an account on any instance they wanted to, and chose to make it on the most inappropriate one they could find.
Just saying
It’s not a sin, it’s just inappropriate. God you’re a judgemental dick
You would be happy if your partner had the easiest choice to not make their account on the porn instance but still did?
No, why would I care one way or another which instance they were on? People like you are why we have ‘morality’ laws.
I’m guessing that you’re a god-botherer then
You definitely seem very judgemental
Yes, I am judgemental of people who are advocating for not having the back of a noncheating parent.
“Oh she’s being mean by saying dont talk to him. How could she”
He literally fucked his assistant behind her back. What he did was 100x as worse. But its ok. He’s fun though!
Religious people are stupid
I’m done with you
This isn’t an airport. You don’t need announce your departure