I mean, like, my sister’s ex-friend engages in abusive behaviors but claims to want to help people in bad situations (only non-autistic people) , doesn’t want to hate others or autistic people but does, and really is fond of kids and animals. Why? I know that kids and animals are considered to be more innocent and naive, but helping others? To gain a better publicity? Why?
Let go of the idea that bad/good people do bad/good things. Abuse isn’t a personality type, it’s a behavior.