Would you or would you not have a funeral for a toddler should they pass for whatever reason?

I was kinda shocked that my husband thought I was a monster for thinking it’s unnecessary.

The way I see it, you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops. If this happened to me, I’d just chalk it up to a ~2 year time loss and go for another pregnancy. Thoughts?

  • GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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    1 month ago

    never interacting with any under maybe 7-8 years

    So, you were born at 18+, eh?

    I just can’t see myself being at all sad in their passing if they’re younger than 5.

    “You must circle the sun this many times before I give a shit about you.”