Would you or would you not have a funeral for a toddler should they pass for whatever reason?
I was kinda shocked that my husband thought I was a monster for thinking it’s unnecessary.
The way I see it, you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops. If this happened to me, I’d just chalk it up to a ~2 year time loss and go for another pregnancy. Thoughts?
If you’re not trolling then I can only assume you have had literally zero experience with babies born to close friends and family? Babies have personalities within weeks of being born. By 2 they’re walking, talking little people. To say you would have no attachment to them points to either zero experience or an emotional issue.