Would you or would you not have a funeral for a toddler should they pass for whatever reason?
I was kinda shocked that my husband thought I was a monster for thinking it’s unnecessary.
The way I see it, you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops. If this happened to me, I’d just chalk it up to a ~2 year time loss and go for another pregnancy. Thoughts?
I don’t post on here often, but I feel compelled to ask you to consider not having a child. I can’t express how damaging it would be for a child to experience such an utter lack of empathy during their first few years of life and I’m highly suspect of your capacity to suddenly turn it on for them when they are older. Just to be clear, I’m not saying you’re an inherently and person or a monster, but you are most certainly not emotionally prepared to be a parent.