• phoneymouse@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    My parents grew up in homes with 3 bedrooms and 5-6 kids. They made it work and it wasn’t considered a problem back then.

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      8 months ago

      Nice and what about the kids that did develop issues because of that? Do you not count them because you personally were totally fine with it?

      • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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        8 months ago

        Lockable doors and beds didn’t even exist for the vast majority of humanity’s existence and still don’t in many places. Beds aren’t even popular sometimes today. Many Japanese children and their parents sleep on mats on the floor. They also may have interior walls, including the ones of their room, made of rice paper. Are all of those children mentally ill?

        To suggest that lacking such things would cause mental illness would be to suggest that only a small segment of humanity has ever been not been mentally ill.

        As far as escaping your parents or developing your sexuality, neither a lockable door nor a bed are necessary for those things. You may have to go outside your own home once in a while though.

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          8 months ago

          would be to suggest that only a small segment of humanity has ever been not been mentally ill

          Look I think the OP needs some perspective, but stepping back for a minute to look around at the world… are you sure that’s an unreasonable suggestion?

          • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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            8 months ago

            Yes I do think that’s an unreasonable suggestion considering the vast amount of time our species has been on this planet, we were small groups of hunter-gatherers and there’s not, as far as I know, widespread mental illness amongst modern hunter-gatherers.

            And those hunter gatherers often all live together as one single tribe. Not only do the children not have their own rooms, no one does. Let alone locks.

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              8 months ago

              Homie, it was a joke about the state of the world. I recognise your username, we are often arguing the same points in threads so I think we agree on a lot. There’s no need to come at me all serious, I was just trying to give you a wry smile.

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        8 months ago

        I think a child has a better chance of turning out just fine with loving parents and sharing a room with bunk beds with their sibling than going to a foster family and split from their siblings, but at least they have their own room!

    • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      My mother and her family grew up in New York City apartments, which were usually one bedroom. She and her brother slept in the living room.