• Dble@lemmy.todayOP
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    9 months ago

    What a toxic take. Because a smaller percentage of men are affected by violent abuse that means they shouldn’t be offered support for verbal abuse?

    • Mr_Blott@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      Well I mean it’s clear that Google thinks that women are incapable of finding help themselves and men simply don’t need the help due to their superior intelligence

      Every fucking thread on Lemmy 🙄

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      9 months ago

      Google can’t possibly moderate every possible question. One is just an excerpt from a relevant website just like any other question, the other which is much more likely to be relevant to a domestic abuse resulting in death got special treatment. If you had a 1:1 with whoever from Google flagged this for special treatment I’m sure they’d be happy to add your suggestion, but the answer to your question is “more impactful changes tend to get higher priority”, and acknowledging that is not “toxic”, it’s just reality.

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        9 months ago

        The best, most objective, level-headed, well-put and respectul comment on the post and you’re getting downvoted.

        Love this place

    • Sgagvefey@lemmynsfw.com
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      9 months ago

      Because the point of those support programs is to prevent literal physical harm, which is massively correlated to physically stronger men screaming at physically smaller women and children. (In straight couples) If your husband is yelling at you frequently, the probability is reasonably high that there will be physical harm. It’s effectively a certainty that there’s a real threat of physical harm associated with the yelling.

      (In straight couples), if your wife is yelling at you, the probability is close to zero that there will be physical harm. It is also unlikely that the yelling even constitutes any threat of physical harm.

      Almost no man searching that term needs or benefits from resources on being abused by their wife. Almost every woman reading searching that term does need resources on being abused by their husband.

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      9 months ago

      Literally nobody is arguing this. Jesus christ half the people commenting here are either insane, pushing some agenda, or incels