Exclusive: Family calls for inquest, saying Wilkinson visited police ‘almost every day’ before she was murdered by her husband in 2021

  • Vlarb@lemmy.ml
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    7 months ago

    I guarantee part of the reason why she was repeatedly ignored was because her husband happened to be a marine.

  • ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world
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    A court has previously heard that Johnston tied Wilkinson to a clothesline and set her on fire on 20 April 2021.

    Holy shit, I assumed it was an impulsive murder (not that that is good). But doing that to her? What a total piece of shit.

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      Never underestimate the shitty guys women are willing to marry.

      While this guy was killing his wife, good men were killing themselves out of loneliness.

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        It could be viewed more accurately as ‘never underestimate the power that emotional abuse and manipulation can have on a vulnerable person’. You’re not wrong exactly but I’m not sure what point you are trying to make. To me it makes it sound like you’re saying she should have known better than to let herself get murdered.

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            You’re blaming her for being murdered by saying she should have married a “good man”.

            That’s pure unadulterated incel shit.

            Blame the killer, and the police who enabled him, not the victim.

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            A woman was murdered and your first reaction was to spill one out for the lonely guys!

      • Moggy@lemmy.world
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        Wow. Way to victim blame the woman for marrying someone she assumed wouldn’t kill her. Like WTF is this incel logic? You’re not a good man killing yourself out of loneliness. You’re a douche bag who doesn’t see WHY they’re alone.

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        Edit: I made a snarky comment, but I think you would be better served looking up why abusive relationships are so complicated. It’s more than women picking shitty guys, there are layers of manipulative behavior and the creation of a constant state of dependence and fear. Oftentimes, you don’t realize how shitty someone is until you are deep into the relationship, sometimes you don’t realize it all.

        This is not simple women picking shitty men, there is so much more going on here and you shouldn’t distill it down to something so simple

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          It’s the men who complain about women picking bad guys who are the guys who mask their controlling behavior in “niceness.”

          That’s what got me. I thought he was a good guy, but he was just an MRA idiot.

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    Yes, cop shopping, i’m in here repeatedly trying to get even one of you to give a shit, and you’ve got a perjorative term just ready to hand for that exact situation.

    Policy against giving a shit would go with the territory I suppose, pathological fucking institution.

  • BigMacHole@lemm.ee
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    Maybe if we took money AWAY from Teachers and Gave it to COPS they would FINALLY be paid enough to WANT to HELP people!

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      Really, teachers? That’s who you want to go after? What about the politicians making millions at the expense of all of us, including teachers and cops.

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      Cops don’t care though, they get paid a lot in many places and still go out of their way to do as little as possible. I’m sure plenty of people know a cop or two personally that are great people and do help others, but the institution as a whole attracts the worst types and encourages unnecessary violent responses, it’s outdated and needs changing, the funding could be better served elsewhere.

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    The system is designed to fail the vulnerable. Cops are domestic abusers, racists, and fascists. We need to develop ways to protect ourselves and our community. Wilkinson should have had an option other than the cops. She needed people who had been victimized in the past or at least would believe her and stood to protect her. Folks who would take turns keeping watch over her or give her and her kids a safe place to stay.

    I don’t think the cops can be reformed but that doesn’t mean we can’t keep each other safe.

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      I suppose holding law enforcement to a higher standard than the rest of us would be a good start. Heck I’d settle for the same standard as the rest of us right now

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        That would be nice, but how? They have 50 years of excellent, unearned, PR. 20% of scripted television is about unrealistically wonderful cops. When a local government has a problem their first response is always to throw cops at it. Any time they get the slightest pushback they threaten to stop doing all the things the municipality thinks they’re doing. Every time a cop’s ability to do whatever they want, including nothing, is threatened a massive media reaction rises up to defend them.

        That’s why I think we need alternatives. We need to replace cops. The people who solve problems cannot think of themselves as sheep dogs protecting the sheep from the wolves. Someone protecting a potential DV victim from assault might need a gun but someone handling traffic enforcement does not. People running welfare checks don’t need guns. People responding to a public mental health emergency almost never need guns.

        Citation needed and Behind the Bastards cop episodes are excellent background if you’d like to know why I’m so jaded when it comes to cop reform.

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          You ever watch any of those cop shows? They’re not wonderful cops, they literally are walking examples of “ends justify the means” philosophies but with charismatic actors. The constitutional violations are myriad and disturbing, I’d almost call those shows fascist propaganda and maybe y’all should look up Dick Wolf and his standing in the republican party and why conservative politicians sometimes work between terms on his shows portraying elected political types.

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            100%. Unrealistically effective is a better way to say it. Cops are bad at solving societal problems. Bad at solving murders, theft, and other crimes. However, those shows basically make the case that cops are the only ones capable of solving those problems.

    • maness300@lemmy.world
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      Wilkinson should have had an option other than the cops.

      She did. Arm herself and stay as far away from him as possible.

    • Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world
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      There was a story on reddit about a ex husband sending death threat letters and police said, “unless you’re being raped or dead, we can’t help you.”

    • saltesc@lemmy.world
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      Nooo. Like their cars say, they’re there to protect and to serve and-… Oh, I see how they may have slipped up on this one. And maybe in a few other incidents… Regularly… All the time…Okay, you have a point.

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          Protect capitalist interests and serve the capitalist agenda. Steal from a wal mart? Multi unit response. Shoot up a school, light your wife on fire so she burns to death horrifically? Not worth the effort

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          Seems like false advertising. Cease and desist! If not, should be forced to add disclaimer everywhere, stating the fact that they’re not actually legally required to “protect and serve” anyone in particular. And will not be personally liable for any damages (like shooting your dog when they raid the wrong house).

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        That’s why they often put it quotes for plausible deniability: “we just put that on our cars 'cause we heard some guy say it once.”

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      Yes. All cops are bastards, you can’t fight, and you don’t own a gun.

      Who exactly do you expect to protect you in situations like this, then? The fairy-godmother?

      • Moggy@lemmy.world
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        You’re just FULL of bad takes. Take the L and get off the internet. Or go watch another video from Andrew Tate that just EXUDES homosexual tension, while claiming to be aggressively hetero. I’m sure you love those.

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    “cop shopping” is also known as “finding a needle in a haystack” or “the one cop that will do the minimum of their job”.

    At the beginning of April 2021, police charged Johnston with four serious domestic violence offences against Wilkinson. He was given watch house bail.

    In the weeks that followed, Wilkinson attempted to speak to police “almost every day” about her concerns in relation to Johnston, her sister, Natalie Wilkinson told the Gold Coast Bulletin in 2021, including allegations he had breached the conditions of his domestic violence order.

    Another sister, Danielle Carroll, said at that time that Kelly had told police, “I am scared for my life, I am scared for my children’s life. We are not safe”.

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      I’m curious what the cops could have actually done given existing legislation.

      Were they able to arrest and detain him because he was in breach of the AVO or can’t they do anything?

      If they could have done something and didn’t then they should be held accountable.

      If the law is written such that they couldn’t arrest him then I’m not sure what could have changed.

      It’s a frustrating thing.

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        They could’ve arrested him

        In the weeks that followed, Wilkinson attempted to speak to police “almost every day” about her concerns in relation to Johnston, her sister, Natalie Wilkinson told the Gold Coast Bulletin in 2021, including allegations he had breached the conditions of his domestic violence order.

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        If you are charged, the police may release you on bail from the watch-house. Otherwise, they must take you to court as soon as possible and release you if the court grants bail.

        He was found sufficiently suspicious/liable enough in the initial investigation to warrant being arrested and given a formal charge, but still released on bail.

        If police charge you with an offence, they must give you a notice to appear or a full charge sheet (also called a bench charge sheet), which provides details of the charge. Police will provide the full charge sheet if they arrest and formally charge you at the watch house.

        They saw what he was doing to her, agreed enough to charge him with a crime, and then released him, with details of her complaints to the police in hand. DVO + this new offense should have been obvious that he has reoffend - the police’s behavior was completely negligent

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            Article clearly says:

            At the beginning of April 2021, police charged Johnston with four serious domestic violence offences against Wilkinson. He was given watch house bail. In the weeks that followed, Wilkinson attempted to speak to police “almost every day” about her concerns

            I’m not a lawyer, nor an Australian lawyer, but a quick search seems that “watch house bail” is the term for “released on bail/bond” equivalent - hence the prior link to the Queensland government website.

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        I know someone who helps run a series of shelters, where people in fear of abuse can hide. It’s not the cops, but cops sometimes send people their way. They have an ever-changing set of safe houses, and my friend can’t even say where she works in case one of the locations gets out.

        I have no idea how they connect with victims though

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        With weekly break-ins, they could have watched the place and arrested whoever is breaking in for, you know, the crime of breaking and entering. They could have further gotten a protective order against the dude and then watched the place again after he left jail.

        She didn’t report the break-in once, it was 5 times for weeks leading up to her murder.

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        This is such a weak argument. The police have a wide latitude in their discretion in the way they execute the law and almost no individual liability for any actions they take (e.g. murder, theft, rape, etc.), especially when they fear for their own lives or think someone may have broken an imaginary law that only exists inside their own head. But, when someone needs actual help and protection, suddenly their hands are tied by red tape? It’s more than frustrating, it’s straight up Orwellian doublespeak.

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          His point stands though.

          For the same reason why people sit through the CSR saying to power cycle and check the cords… Everyone has red tape they know they have to go through for their jobs. Domestic abuse cases are especially under scrutiny. Hell in my state, they HAVE to arrest someone if they show up.

          Almost all of these cases stand with a crux on 1st amendment issues. Until they receive direct threats with times and ‘hows’, then it’s file a restraining order. For murderers though, it means nothing. Police aren’t exactly funded enough to plant a cruiser in front of her house too unless they think it’s imminent.

          You could hire a bodyguard, but good luck if you’re remotely poor.

          There’s also small merit to saying well go get a gun! You have to sleep sometimes. Only so many cameras you can put up in your home and you miss a notification.

          Few people can afford a name change and just up and move. Most can’t even do that due to the legal system restricting where you can if you have children with them.

          Simply put, someone who’s not full on dumb can murder anyone if they really wanted to. It’s just something every society hates thinking about.

        • Custoslibera@lemmy.world
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          I don’t disagree with you in principle but I don’t want to have a situation where police detain people on the off chance they may commit a future crime.

          That’s a recipe for disaster.

          In this case though it could be argued that the police releasing him on bail was a mistake and the courts should have made the call.

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    Actions speak louder than words QPS

    Can’t fucking beleive this happened in my own state, my own country

    I thought we wouldn’t have to deal with the same bullshit in america here as well