• TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        9 months ago

        You’re not finding them because of your attitude.

        There are PLENTY of women who will happily hook up with, date and love short men. I’ve personally met more than I can count.

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          9 months ago

          I didn’t even notice that my now-husband is considered short when we started dating until someone else mentioned it. I was just like, “Oh, I hadn’t thought about it.” Because why would I? We got on great.

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            9 months ago

            My husband’s shorter than I am. I’m sure there are other people here in a relationship that would be a counter example, but my sister’s husband is also shorter than she is (both by 2-3”).

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            9 months ago

            Absolutely I can but can you tell me what value there is in me naming people in my life who you’ve never met? What good will seeing two names do? The attitude your carrying is just going to tell you that I’m lying no matter what.

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                  9 months ago

                  Just because you said there are girls like that, now you don’t remember a single girl like that, am I right?

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                    9 months ago

                    Lmao, buddy…

                    One day I hope you find the confidence you need to love yourself and you can look back on these foolish times with laughter and pride in your growth.

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            9 months ago

            My partner’s ex was short and she didn’t give a fuck about that - a few of my childhood friends were short and they’re all married now. There are features that are considered generally attractive and it’s certainly easier in life if you have those traits but, honestly, they’re so fucking unimportant compared to the other shit.

            If height was really that much of an issue then how could we all have been drooling over Peter Dinklage’s portrayal of Tyrion - hint it might be because there are more important things than height.