questionand@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agoKing is son's (21) boyfriend. King is almost 47, that's why I don't like him. Would you go?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square30fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1imageKing is son's (21) boyfriend. King is almost 47, that's why I don't like him. Would you go?lemmy.worldquestionand@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agomessage-square30fedilink
minus-squaregivesomefucks@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months agoHe’s 21 it’s very unlikely he marries King. Good or bad, you’re better off getting to know them if you son’s going to date them.
minus-squareroofuskit@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months agoSage advice. I don’t get why so many parents are eager to put up walls in their relationship with their kids. You have a choice, be in your kids life or not.
minus-squaregivesomefucks@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months agoYep, even if they’re a piece of shit, your kid won’t trust you unless they see you gave it an honest go. And you might be wrong too.
He’s 21 it’s very unlikely he marries King.
Good or bad, you’re better off getting to know them if you son’s going to date them.
Sage advice. I don’t get why so many parents are eager to put up walls in their relationship with their kids. You have a choice, be in your kids life or not.
Yep, even if they’re a piece of shit, your kid won’t trust you unless they see you gave it an honest go.
And you might be wrong too.