So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
My ex was like that and our sex life got 10x better when I told him to stop doing that. It became 5-10 minutes of powerful intimacy that was a million times more satisfying to me, versus 30 min of just-ok dicking. He said he enjoyed it a lot more too.