So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
wow… is that how it’s like for the guy doing the penetrating? Sounds very stressful.
Not for all men ofcourse. It’s more of a mental thing I believe. You can just as well overthink yourself into not being able to cum or maintain an erection.
I’m not gay, but I usually don’t last longer than a few minutes when I’m penetrating.
Made sex suck for a long time, until I realized I’m doing it wrong.
Now, instead of stressing out about how long I last, I just make sure my partner is satisfied before I even enter.