So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
10 minutes is pretty good! tbh, I’ve never known a man to last more than 5 in my mouth. Most of the fun parts of sex happen with no insertion, it’s the foreplay that goes on beforehand that I really like. I’ve also found that it can be fun to swap from insertion back to cuddling/necking, to give the top a little break and make them last a bit longer.
Doing all of the above, it’s possible for sex with me to take about 30 minutes to an hour, even though I’m in control to finish him off quickly whenever I want.