So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
My IRL experience is generally ~20-40min nonstop with one or two position changes, but that’s after years of experience together. You’re not gonna find that with anyone right away, you have to get to know both your own body and theirs, what the limits are, what the triggers are. Good sex takes work to achieve, from all parties. You’ll get there.