So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
Its normal in the sense that it is typical. If you are unexperienced and/or anxious it can affect the time you last. When you are comfortable with the your partner, not stressed, healthy and experienced you should be able to last for very long time. In my opinion the thing that affects most is the mood you are in.