So, I’m gay and this is my first relationship. Just recently started having sex. I’ve never had any interest in the penetrating side of things. I’m on the “passive” side. I have no idea what the average is, but my bf can only go for up to 10 mins tops. It seems short to me. Maybe it’s cause I have no previous experience and all I know is from online stuff. Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I don’t know if I should mark this as NSFW or not.
That’s not a dumb question.
If you have no prior experience on how you experience pleasure it’s hard to tell what is normal but I would say that should be near the average (a little over). To make it last longer (keep in mind I don’t have that much experience with other men myself) what matter is to learn… to play and have fun and not rush for the sexual act itself, and how one can make it so to last longer. Also, if it’s your first relation, you learn a lot of stuff don’t be surprised if things change.
Should your question be labelled NSFW? Maybe. I have no issue reading this kind of question but that’s just me. What’s sure is a more detailed answer would most probably need to be classified as NSFW ;)