I feel like I have nothing to offer in a relationship, besides friendship. So, what personality traits do you have to possess in order to maybe steer someone from wanting friendship to wanting a relationship? I don’t mean this like getting out of the “friend-zone” I mean like prior to that.
I guess there is not really a secret sauce for this. But generally what did the other person do differently for you that made you want to have a relationship with them, rather than just friendship?
Depends on the relationship. Different people want different things, to different degrees. One person’s “making me feel valued” is another person’s “too clingy”. One person’s independence is another person’s indifference. One person’s ambition is another person’s exhaustion.
Focus on the person. What does that individual want and like in a relationship?