It happens more often than expected… 👀

  • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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    If you and your partner can’t talk to each other like adults in a relationship … it won’t be a relationship for very long.

    • Snowclone@lemmy.world
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      Not true my shitty ass marriage of mutual animosity has lasted almost two decades. So… I got that going for me.

      • tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world
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        I’d rather be single than have that. My sister has a weird couple as friends, they’re always so hostile and sarcastic to each other, constantly arguing. Why anyone would stay willingly in a relationship like that is beyond me.

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          Codependency. Lots of people can’t stand to be by themselves so they’d rather be in a terrible relationship than being alone.

    • prof@infosec.pub
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      A lot of people never had positive role models when it comes to sharing their feelings.

      When I started dating my now wife, she would sometimes ignore me for a week if we got into a disagreement, just because she couldn’t tell me what’s bothering her and be real with her own emotions.

      She’s grown a lot since then and when there’s inevitably a new argument we can resolve it very quickly now.

      Communication is important, but it’s something you have to learn.