Who said I am bent out of shape? I am a bit annoyed, and pretty disappointed, but not angry. And yeah, you might succeed at making someone mad by making fun of their penis, but that isn’t productive, and does not make them rethink their own toxicity. All it does is tell them that this particular type of joke is OK since both sides are using it. So it can’t do any good, but can do harm.
Being toxic is an invitation to be toxic. The subject has made clear the forms of communication within their grasp, and decency is not among them.
Toxicity does nothing to them though. It only normalizes their behavior.
Tell them that. They’re the only ones getting more bent-out-of-shape about it than you.
Who said I am bent out of shape? I am a bit annoyed, and pretty disappointed, but not angry. And yeah, you might succeed at making someone mad by making fun of their penis, but that isn’t productive, and does not make them rethink their own toxicity. All it does is tell them that this particular type of joke is OK since both sides are using it. So it can’t do any good, but can do harm.
If you’re not bent-out-of-shape, then why keep up this charade? Stop coddling the orange man-baby.