I had unprotected sex with 2 shady sex workers yesterday where I kissed, performed cunnilingus, recived oral sex on my uncircumcised penis and had sex without condom. My penis size is small (3.5 inches when erect) and yesterday as I was not in complete mood my erection would have been 2 inches max when I ejaculated inside. I’m saying this because I don’t think my erect penis entered too deep into the vagina. But I’m worried I may contract HIV and other STI’s as this is the first time I had sex without condom and received oral sex without condom. What should I do? Should I take precautions such as PReP?

  • intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    34 minutes ago

    Get an STD test before you freak out.

    My own sex life is nil, but last time I checked (long time ago) it was $80 for a full test covering everything but herpes. Herpes test was another chunk of money.

    Just go to a clinic, or to Planned Parenthood, and ask for an STD test

  • rimmedalpha@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 hours ago

    You’re in the clear my man. It is well established that penises smaller than 3 inches are low priority for the transmission viral and bacterial infections from sexual contact. Sex workers are trained to release STDs or not, much like a snake can withhold venom when striking. /s

    Seriously go get tested and wrap it next time.

  • Greg Clarke@lemmy.ca
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    3 hours ago

    Put your penis in a bowl of vinegar. It’ll help you find any cuts which can increase the risk of infection while also disinfecting those wounds.

    But you probably shouldn’t ask strangers on the Internet for medical advice or you’ll end up with a pickled penis.

  • SavvyWolf@pawb.social
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    4 hours ago

    Lemmy is not your doctor and you shouldn’t take medical advice from us. If it’s possible where you live, try to get in touch with a family planning clinic (or whatever the local name would be). They can get you some sti tests and give better advice than we can. You aren’t the first person to have unprotected sex, and you won’t be the last.

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    7 hours ago

    I knew a guy that was really into his hookers from sex worker sites and the prices he’d say were shockingly cheap. He got regularly checked out, and after years of doing this (at least 5) the guy says the only STD he’s ever got was chlamydia, which was in his “pre-hooker days”.

    That’s all to say that you’re probably fine, but you should definitely get tested for peace of mind. If they’re sex workers by trade, they’re probably on top of the testing themselves.

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    7 hours ago

    could you show us a picture to be sure it sounds like you’re bragging about size

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    7 hours ago

    GET TESTED

    and im pretty sure bottom to top HIV infection is less than a percent.

    But get tested.

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    7 hours ago

    Fyi it doesn’t really matter if you are uncircumcised or not. There is some data that says that circumcised get less AIDS but afik it’s not by a lot and the data is fairly unclear.

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    I don’t know what country you’re in, so something specific can be difficult to say as to where to go. It can often take a few days (3ish sometimes) for some tests to show positive, but get tested and “test where you play”. It should be cheap or free. It probably isn’t a big deal, so don’t freak out, just get tested. Go to a clinic or a doctor’s office, or call them first.