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Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 10 months ago

What would make you happy?

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What would make you happy?

Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 10 months ago
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    Removed by mod

  • Granixo@feddit.cl
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    Be able to be there for those that need me and simultaneously have a job

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      I feel for you… When you’re at one you feel guilty for not being at the other and you constantly feel like you’re failing at both. Everyone told me to make time for myself and i didn’t even know what that meant. Try not to let the frustration and guilt get to you. Sleep when you can.

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    Well I am happy, but would be happier if the public transit here was good. Because the city would be so much better.

    More money would make me less anxious but I have a reasonable lifestyle already (only took a half century and 4 wage earners in the household) and am satisfied with it.

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      I didnt know i would be saying this today but I hope you get the public transit of your dreams.

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    10 months ago

    A few thousand dollars.

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      10 months ago

      That’s totally doable. Good on you.

      • thejoker954@lemmy.world
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        10 months ago

        I wish it were.

        • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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          10 months ago

          No, I get it. But it’s not like asking for world peace or something.

    • CM400@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      💯

    • Druid@lemmy.zip
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      10 months ago

      I was trying to think of something before clicking on the post and money was literally the first and only thing I came up with

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      10 months ago

      Got a few and it didn’t make me happier past a day

      • thejoker954@lemmy.world
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        I mean when a few thousand is all that stands between you and homelessness…

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          10 months ago

          I’m at this point as well

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    Never needing to work again and actually having energy to do things would probably do the trick.

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      It helps, but then you have to supplant your own meaning life, or one can very quickly spiral into doing nothing and becoming depressed. Capitalism sucks, but work doesn’t; it gives us direction and purpose.

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        My friend, I assume, and I find plenty of meaning in accomplishing simple tasks and finding interesting ways to express ourselves. No labor needed. Only little rabbit holes to constantly fall into.

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      10 months ago

      We can be friends

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    If I could turn back time.

    • Cannibal_MoshpitV3@lemmy.world
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      If I could find a way

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        I’d take back those words that have hurt you

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      So like nothing? Lol

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        Some days are better than others, but generally, yeah, nothing. Happiness is not for losers like me.

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          Happiness isn’t for all of us. It wouldn’t hurt to seek it out some times, though.

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    10 months ago

    A choice to be? (If only it were that simple.)

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      Too vague to sus out what’s going on wit you. I guess I just hope you continue to chose to be.

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    Probably a loving partner, and enough therapy to be able to have a healthy relationship. But that’s a lot of work, so I mostly try to be happy in my solitude.

    • I'm back on my BS 🤪@lemmy.autism.place
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      Same. Working on boundaries and seeing some improvement. Definitely not where I want to be, but much better than where I used to be.

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        I’m definitely worse lol

        • I'm back on my BS 🤪@lemmy.autism.place
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          10 months ago

          His name is

          H1Jack

          Cadillac

          on the track.

          He’s getting back

          in the black

          on the attack

          blocking flak

          making you yak

          yo slimy gak

          like ipecac

          cause you whack.

          But in his pack

          we got no lack

          with H1 Jack.

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      It’s a lot of work for sure. Good luck to you 🙂 🤍

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        Thanks. Trying to fix myself up more first

        • Troubleinmind@lemmy.wtf
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          10 months ago

          Sounds like a solid plan!

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      I’m a person who enjoys their solitude. I know my partners not the same but I also know there are other people who very much like to stay to themselves. Maybe you can find someone who you can both be in solitude together with.

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        That would be great, but I’m pretty bad at meeting new people so 🤷

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    Ultimate dream? To have my mortgage paid off so I can have a bit more breathing room every month. I’ll get there eventually, I’m just impatient 🙂

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      Jelly.

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    If I learned how to prioritize sleep without feeling guilty

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      Sleep’s one of the best free pleasures around. It’s free, it heals your body and mind, and just feels good.

      I’ve fought a lot with insomnia in recent years and truly appreciate when I’m able to get a good night’s sleep. I’d rather have a bit shorter days, but feel much better due to being well rested whenever possible. How does sleeping make you feel guilty?

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      I do it like this. The world’s a better place for everyone if I’m properly rested. Especially me.

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    I just want to know that everything is genuinely going to be okay.

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      In the vastness of an infinite universe you are a speck on a dot that lasts only a moment. It’ll be ok.

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    A friend that both plays the same video games I like so we can play together and also fucks me.

    • TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee
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      bummer I was gonna offer the first part but i fear it’s contingent on the second part

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      Are we doing this? Be gentle.

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        Gentle? But babe, I just lost to Promised Consort Radahn 157 times in a row; I need to vent that anger.

        • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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          We’re going to need some lube

          • china🇨🇳@lemmy.ca
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            Condoms has lube right?

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    If it turns out that the Nintendo Switch 2 can dispense coffee.

    Jokes aside, I’m already happy! What would make me even happier is getting around to finishing this drawing…soooo many hairs 😂

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      Save some serotonin for the rest of us, would ya.

      My serotonin receptors: No you good. Carry on.

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    A universal move towards a less judgemental and more empathetic society.

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      this might sound cliché, but what if the start of non-judgment is within yourself? you’ve already judged society to be too judgmental!

      I dont mean to play tricks with you. this is the central struggle of having a mind. we constantly evaluate everything!

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        Indeed, it’s something I think about quite a bit. The conclusion I’ve come to involves consent: If all people involved in something fully understand and consent to what is happening, then they should not be “judged” for it.

        And yes, I know there are holes and loopholes in that conclusion, but I think it’s nearly impossible to have a logically sound and consistent moral framework.

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      All these new science and technology advancements and our politicians are still frothing corrupt conartists lying to the public to increase their own power and wealth at the cost of humanity.

  • JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world
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    Full ride scholarship

    • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.worldOP
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      Monkey paw time. Full ride scholarship but it’s to trump university.

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        You know what, id stick it out for a little bit just to raise some hell. Probably wouldn’t make it long, but it’d be fun while it lasted

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