A lot of memes I across the Internet are about how everyone, no matter how old, is just a kid inside, trying to figure out what’s going on, which is something I definitely identify with.

But every once in a while, something happens that does actually make me feel like a grown-up. It’s usually small, and kind of silly, but it’s fun, and I thought people might want to share theirs.

For me, most recently, it was realizing I like Greek yogurt now. It was trendy when I was like 12, and I couldn’t stand it then, but I bought some on a whim, and now I keep the fridge stocked. That drastic change in my tastes took me aback momentarily, but I thought it was a nice fun little milestone.

How about you?

  • nocturne@sopuli.xyz
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    11 months ago

    Helping my son deal with his mental illness, drug addiction, and ultimately suicide.

    I really have never felt like an adult, until my son moved in with me (I met him when he was 5 days old, and was kept from seeing him again until he moved in with me when was almost 17). Suddenly I had to deal with his medication, his appointments, keeping him out of trouble, learning to be a father of a 17 year old I did not know.

    After his death the feeling stuck around for a while, but has slowly gone away over time. My last born child turned 18 earlier this year, and while that made me feel old, it did not make me feel like an adult. I even took him to register for college that, just feeling like an old kid.

  • Tedrow@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I recently had new rain gutters installed on my house, had my trees trimmed, had my patio paved, and bought a power bank. I’m fucking adulting damnit.

  • toomanypancakes@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    11 months ago

    Not so fun, but I certainly felt like an adult when I went inpatient for suicidal ideation. A sad, broken, fucked up adult.

    • Infynis@midwest.socialOPEnglish
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      11 months ago

      I didn’t realize having too many pancakes could be so difficult 😔

      I hope you’re doing better, and have the support you need!

  • weeeeum@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    11 months ago

    Getting excited over “mundane” things. New silverware, vacuum cleaner, pan etc.

    Going over bank statements. Going over stock options.

    Using hot water to wash my hands instead of cold (don’t even do this yet but I’ll know I’ll be a geezer when I do).

    Not caring about others opinions about you. Just living your life.

    Cooking. Specifically soup and porridge.

    Checking email multiple times everyday

  • duckythescientist@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    When I bought an actual bedframe. It wasn’t the bed at my parents’ house, it wasn’t the bed that my college dorm owned, and it wasn’t an air mattress I had been sleeping on during my internships. It was an actual bed, a real piece of adult furniture. It wasn’t a small cheap metal frame. It was bulky and adult and real, and I owned it.

  • jordanlund@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    When I turned 30, my insurance went down and I went “Woo hoo! My insurance went down!”. . .

    “Wait… did… did I just ‘woo hoo’ an insurance rate? FUCK ME!!!”

    • Wolf314159@startrek.website
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      11 months ago

      My insurance seemed to go down about as fast as inflation, so it feels like I’ve been paying about the same for decades. I didn’t really realize how much lower my rates were until I talked to some kids young adults.

  • Head@lemmings.world
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    11 months ago

    I was walking through the city at night smoking a (now legal) joint with a friend and talking and suddenly it occurred to me that none of what I was doing was against any rules and that society was literally built by adults and for adults.